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Master Don Juan
Also to add: it’s better if they are seeing a few other people at the start too.
Because as things slowly progress to where both people are agreeable to exclusivity (if this is your aim), you’ll know you were her best pick, which would be indicative that you have the highest value in her eyes; value being stated to that of which attributes are most important and desirable to her.
And of course for you to be seeing other people as well, then to pick the best person based on what you deem valuable. And hopefully both individuals pick each other. This would be the ideal situation; win-win, as both sides are choosing from an abundant mindset which is much more
meaningful than just going for the first right swipe you get, and settling for the first shiny thing which comes along.
Because as things slowly progress to where both people are agreeable to exclusivity (if this is your aim), you’ll know you were her best pick, which would be indicative that you have the highest value in her eyes; value being stated to that of which attributes are most important and desirable to her.
And of course for you to be seeing other people as well, then to pick the best person based on what you deem valuable. And hopefully both individuals pick each other. This would be the ideal situation; win-win, as both sides are choosing from an abundant mindset which is much more
meaningful than just going for the first right swipe you get, and settling for the first shiny thing which comes along.
