Do you think its me ?

[Wiesman44]

Now before I go on, I want to say that I want only real Dj's, and guys that have been with a lot of women to respond to this. I really dont want 18 yr olds that have been with 1 girl to respond to this b/c i dont need bs responses.


Now this question really isn't that big of a deal, but its starting to get with me. My ex-gf from like 7 months ago, i saw for the first time since, at a party. She was somewhat drunk. I offered to give her a ride back to her dorm. Then she said she wanted me to stay. So of course, and normal guy who gets offered to come up to a girls place at 1:00 am in the morning can generally assume he's getting ass, right ? Wrong ! I get her all hot and horny making out, and then she stops me and says, "im sorry", and rolls over to go to bed. Here I am half naked, and I'm like, whats wrong. She says, "im sorry, I'm a little drunk (note that i've seen girls worse, she wasnt that bad). She was doing that heavy breathing sh#t that all girls do when they get really horny. hell, she even said she was really horny.

And two weeks before that, I gamed a hot bisexual chick with size D tits. We set up a date, I go over there, give her a massage, do some moves, get her top off, then she says, "I think you're really hot, but i want to move slow".

I've never had problems like this before. Think i'm loosing my game, or just running into the wrong girls ?

 

[rgeere]

The problem here isn't you at all; it is that you should not have to game chicks with lesbian tendencies or try to have sex with drunk girls ... you should feel fortunate she was sober enough to say no to you.

So yeah, you basically answered your own question ...

 

[josekortez]

I would agree that getting it from some drunk girl spells "rape charge." Believe it or not, there are women who will give it up when they're sober.

 

[Wiesman44]

Forget I even asked this question. I knew people would stray from the topic I never said she was too drunk to think. She was just a little drunk. Just drunk enough to free her inhibitions. Hell she coulda prolly drove a car.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by Wiesman44
Forget I even asked this question. I knew people would stray from the topic I never said she was too drunk to think. She was just a little drunk. Just drunk enough to free her inhibitions. Hell she coulda prolly drove a car.

That's not the point we are trying to make to you, and we didn't stray from the topic ...

More precisely you are 'losing your game by chasing the wrong girls.'

Being a DJ isn't totally about getting pvssie, if you can't get it from good women then it is rarely even worth it.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Originally posted by Wiesman44
Now before I go on, I want to say that I want only real Dj's, and guys that have been with a lot of women to respond to this. I really dont want 18 yr olds that have been with 1 girl to respond to this b/c i dont need bs responses.


Now this question really isn't that big of a deal, but its starting to get with me. My ex-gf from like 7 months ago, i saw for the first time since, at a party. She was somewhat drunk. I offered to give her a ride back to her dorm. Then she said she wanted me to stay. So of course, and normal guy who gets offered to come up to a girls place at 1:00 am in the morning can generally assume he's getting ass, right ? Wrong ! I get her all hot and horny making out, and then she stops me and says, "im sorry", and rolls over to go to bed. Here I am half naked, and I'm like, whats wrong. She says, "im sorry, I'm a little drunk (note that i've seen girls worse, she wasnt that bad). She was doing that heavy breathing sh#t that all girls do when they get really horny. hell, she even said she was really horny.

And two weeks before that, I gamed a hot bisexual chick with size D tits. We set up a date, I go over there, give her a massage, do some moves, get her top off, then she says, "I think you're really hot, but i want to move slow".

I've never had problems like this before. Think i'm loosing my game, or just running into the wrong girls ?

If I stopped everytime a chic said so I wouldn't get laid half the time.

 

[Hellboy]

Re: Re: Do you think its me ?

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
If I stopped everytime a chic said so I wouldn't get laid half the time.

That sounds very dodgy. I'm assuming you don't mean rape. At least I hope not, in which case you should be more specific.

Sometimes you can be a little forceful as long as it's playful and respectful. If she's enjoying it then continue. If it upsets her then stop. If you get that far and she wants to stop then there are 3 reasons.

1) She's decided that she isn't attracted enough to you.
2) She genuinely likes you and doesn't want to be a cheap lay.
3) She has a disease and doesn't want to give it to you.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Rape?:crackup:

I meant that I keep trying, if she's not with it then **** it.

 

[rgeere]

Re: Re: Re: Do you think its me ?

Originally posted by Hellboy
That sounds very dodgy. I'm assuming you don't mean rape. At least I hope not, in which case you should be more specific.

I think he means he is persistent, which means every time a girl says no you backtrack a bit and then bring her to the same point again with the possibility that she would allow it then.

 

[Hellboy]

Okay

4) She wants you to work a little harder.

Sorted.

 

[Dominant]

Reading from the responses so far, I can see no one has answered your question for you.

I know exactly where you're coming from. Last Monday (4/11) I met this chick who was one of my friend's cousins.

We went back to her place after the club for what I thought was a guaranteed lay. I thought this lay was guaranteed because of my past experiences. Just thought I had it in the bag.

We're back at her place, completely naked. The ***** wouldn't let me lay her! We did everything but.

I didn't really get an explanation; nor did I ask for one. Put my clothes on and was out the door. Didn't even ask for her number.

Anyway, to get to your question...

Problem is you weren't sexual enough, or too sexual too quick. You gotta be just right.

If you go too sexual, then back off and just go back to making out . Then after doing that for a while, try to go a little farther.

Back off for a while, try and go a little further, back off for a while, little further.

That's what I did with this chick. She thought we were just going to make out (yeah right).

But sometimes you just can't lay. It happens.

I think with the first girl, your ex, you weren't persistent enough.

Maybe with the bi girl, you were too sexual too quick. Shoulda just went back to making out for like 10 minutes and try going a little farther.

These girls, you gotta get around their anti-slut defenses to make them do things they already want to do. Even when you're alone with them and no one's gonna see, they still pull that crap.

Anyway, good luck. Don't let the experiences be a blow to your self-esteem, you just gotta practice the technique more. No biggie.

-Dominant

 

[whistler]

Wiesman,

You're probably reading too much into it.

I mean, neither behavior was that weird, given the circumstances.

If this sh!t continues to happen to you over and over (consistently; more than just 2 times) then I'd worry.

For now, I'd relax and move on.