Do you think its fair for women to have high standards?

[Babnik]

Do you think it is fair for women to think they will marry a prince charming?

OK, not everyone has looks, but if you embraced DJ style then you are likely to be successful in life and have those charms.

So, really, is it that unfair for a girl to want a prince?

Of course, its us DJs who will PICK a girl WORTH a prince, but still... I think its totally fine for women to be selfish and want a guy with $$, looks, charms, and etc.

We want women with same things but looks are more important for us I guess.

 

[Kalel21]

of course not, only men should call the shots.

 

[DJDamage]

Life is unfair. From the moment you are born the countdown begin to the moment you are going to die.

Just hit that pvssy and create your own fantasy.

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

No. it's not unfair.

Is it fare that one guy gets off his couch, reads a book, hits the gym, goes to school, and becomes something that is desired by women while another guy sits around and says, "is it fair for some men to be successful?"

We all have the ability to become princes if we choose to DO.
At the same time we demand a girl worthy of US we must become a man worthy of them.

Now, I do have a beef with FUGLY FATTIES who sit around and eat ice cream while complaining they can't find a decent man between their visits to KFC.

That is the definition of fair right there.

 

[Wolves]

No. it's not unfair.

Is it fare that one guy gets off his couch, reads a book, hits the gym, goes to school, and becomes something that is desired by women while another guy sits around and says, "is it fair for some men to be successful?"

We all have the ability to become princes if we choose to DO.
At the same time we demand a girl worthy of US we must become a man worthy of them.

Now, I do have a beef with FUGLY FATTIES who sit around and eat ice cream while complaining they can't find a decent man between their visits to KFC.

That is the definition of fair right there.

Pretty much, haha. The only guys who would ever complain about women having high standards are guys who are essentially lazy. They expect to be able to come home after work or school and not have to go out to any outside activities because that's too much work. They want to be able to sit around on their computer playing starcraft and eating doritos wearing the same shirt all week that has meatball stains on it from last thursday, but then have dozens of women beating down their door to be with them.

These are the guys that don't get regular haircuts, are as pale as a dead fish, wear solid color t-shirts and fleet-farm jeans, stand with their shoulders hunched forward and their hands in their pockets, and yet still wonder why people get the impression that they're boring before they've even said a single word, even though they "view themselves as the prize" lmao.

Not to bust on you guys too much but beggars can't be choosers. Interesting, attractive, successful people are going to have high standards, if you ever complain about that, then you aren't setting your standards FOR YOURSELF high enough. You gotta look around yourself and if your life is boring u gotta say "this isn't good enough for me" and then work to change it.

 

[musclyjerk]

It's fine for women to have high standards - if they have a cute @ss, petite frame, nice rack, perfect nose, animated smile, long smooth legs and dress with class. <grin>

The Muscly Jerk

 

[Socialreject]

Unfair?

There is no such thing. There is only you and your abilities, and you roll with whatever life throws at you. Who's going to decide wether something is unfair anyways? You? The surpreme court? God? No, unfair is for whiners and cry babies... the rest of us just do whaterver we have to.

To answer your question, which is as far as i can tell 'do all the demanders deserve it or not?'. No they don't, not by a looong shot. The irony is that those who DO deserve it, don't actually have the hard core standards that they should have. The women i've met who deserve a quality man are the ones most likely to let in with some silly shmoe. They think they are sweet or whatever and deserve a chance. Essentially it's a one sided relationship and it usually takes em a few 'goes' to realize that.

The gross of the 'princesses' are essentially delusional, or maybe they are in denial, i'm not sure. They want what they can't have. They are like this chick you see staring at some dress she can't possibly afford and just stand there entertaining the idea she will buy it. They usually end up 'commiting' to some guy who meets just one or a couple of their standards, only to annoy him into becoming whatever they invision to be the perfect man. Which usually ends up in the guy suffering under a reign of feminazi oppression, or just end up ****olded as hell. These women are the female version of the *******... basically.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

is it fair for an ugly girl to want a prince? sure

is it realistic? probably not. I have seen some gross girls getting tons of attention though. I've said it before, and I'll say it again:
some guys will **** anything

no one is stopping you from having high standards too, though.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Do you think it is fair for women to think they will marry a prince charming?

It's as fair as a guy pretending to be Prince Charming in order to marry her. They end up having kids, tons of debt and no love for one another. They divorce, she gets the kids, he gets to pay child support and the next guy that meets her has to put up with a ton of her baggage.

Life is what you make of it. Make decisions based on reality as opposed to impulsive emotions and you'll have a chance of making a fair life for yourself. Don't expect for someone to give you a fair life, it's your responsibility.

 

[Thomas94305]

People are allowed to WANT whatever they WANT.

The question I'd ask, is if I WANT a woman with a certain set of standards? That's my choice, and my responsibility. If she wants a guy of a certain charm, knowledge, character, but accepts humans as imperfect, then I can respect that woman. She'd help me be a better person, and would make a good companion. If she wants to get her way all the time, give orders, get $$$, then I'd disqualify her.

We do hesitate to make our choices and disqualify. Personally, I've found that if I hesitate too much to disqualify in a situation that's just unworkable, it usually means I have fear about initiating and starting again elsewhere. We also hesitate to qualify, meaning seeing her as a cool gal and building something with her. That also involves facing fears, and making our decisions.

Bottom line: Take responsibility for yourself, respect her choices, initiate and create other options if the two of you just don't agree.

 

[Warboss Alex]

given that all the guys on here want stunningly beautiful women who aren't *****s, will do all manner of depraved sex acts, say thank you sir and not demand anything in return because "you are the prize" and don't owe them anything.. yes, I think it's very fair that women should have high standards.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Its not fair, but it is right.