Do you think its better to have one girl or be single

[donnyjondeppjuando]

See, I would like lots of girls

BUT

that takes work. I also dont like nightclubs or bars so its hard to met grisl easy give sex.

SO

If you have an open cute gf. Then you can get regular sex with a hot girl and not need to make any effort to find girls for sex

BUT

it means your only having sex with one girl. PLUS you may have to spend a lot off time with her if you want to keep her? So that would suck also for me.

SEE

I personally prefer to do my own thing and I play music and guitar and make music and I love video games and play sports. I do not have any time to commit to a girl. Nor much time or care to pursue girls for sex if it takes effort.


Its a bad situation for me???

 

[Fred_Scuttle]

not sure I follow you here. women will fall like plumbs on a tree if you can get them

 

[PDubb75]

To be honest, I don't see why you are asking this question. No two people are going to have the exact same answer, and nobody but yourself can answer this question for your case.

If you don't want to put in effort, I don't see why you are here. On a forum geared toward improving yourself in order to get women. I also don't see how you think you will succeed getting women without any effort.

You say you don't have time or desire to go find girls, but you dont want to settle with just 1. There's a disconnect there. I'm not sure what type of answer you are looking for.

What it sounds like to me is: You don't want to spend time or effort to find multiple girls. Plus, you feel the best way to find girls is bars and clubs, which you don't want to go to. So, you see your other option being dating just one girl, so that you don't need to waste time looking for multiple. But, on the downside, you then only get to sleep with 1 girl. Plus, that 1 girl is gonna want to spend time with you, which you don't have, because you would rather do your own thing.

Sounds like the logical answer to that is to do your own thing and add an escort service to your speed dial.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

not sure I follow you here. women will fall like plumbs on a tree if you can get them

what do you mean? You still have to make effort to find them? But if they like you they put out striaght away? You still have to go to clubs, parties etc, then to home etc...it takes a lot of time even minimum hook ups?

''What it sounds like to me is: You don't want to spend time or effort to find multiple girls. Plus, you feel the best way to find girls is bars and clubs, which you don't want to go to. So, you see your other option being dating just one girl, so that you don't need to waste time looking for multiple. But, on the downside, you then only get to sleep with 1 girl. Plus, that 1 girl is gonna want to spend time with you, which you don't have, because you would rather do your own thing.

Sounds like the logical answer to that is to do your own thing and add an escort service to your speed dial.''

well thanks you summed me up just perfect. Sometimes it takes someone else reading your situation to better understan yoursefl I guess lol.

I agree escort service is prob best idea but I dont liek the thought of parting money or using used up women for sex...

I guess you cannot get sex with no commitmetn in either time, money or energy. Only hookers is answer.

That sux but i guess its reality

 

[caporal]

Sounds like the logical answer to that is to do your own thing and add an escort service to your speed dial.''

well thanks you summed me up just perfect. Sometimes it takes someone else reading your situation to better understan yoursefl I guess lol.

I agree escort service is prob best idea but I dont liek the thought of parting money or using used up women for sex...

I guess you cannot get sex with no commitmetn in either time, money or energy. Only hookers is answer. LOL LMAO you could give a shot at online dating, it takes little effort to get laid or if you have loads of cash there are some really hot escorts that you could even fall in love with them but they will cost you a lot

That sux but i guess its reality

OK.

 

[PDubb75]

Oh.. yeah... I was kidding about the escort service. But whatever makes you happy...

 

[caporal]

Lol Yeah I Wouldnt Get No Escort In The Us, They Are A Rip Off, In Any Other Country Should Be Good Lol

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Im in UK they are still quite expensive. Only cheap in Europe and Asia.

Anyway how easy it is to get laid without hookers? Seriously.

DOnt women want at least to date, get to know you before they have sex usually? Thats time and soem money commitment right there. Thats in day game

So at night game, u can meet a girl at party or club and have sex that night? Is common/normal? I dont even like clubs or parties so I could go to hooker for same price and guarantee score.

Say I just want to meet a girl and have sex? Thats impossible. She aint gonna have sex with a stranger even if she find me decent looking?

As for internet dating well I dont see many good looking girls in my area and well I dont think I look that good in pics, I look a bit too young (but I am decent endowed so I once told a girl online and sent my pic and she wanted to meet for sex but she stayed to far away so I didnt bother.)

I mean seriously how can you easily get sex with ''attractive '' girls...And I mean decent looking girls....Im sure I could easily get sex with some uglier or fatter or older girls etc..real easy. But I dont want that.

I dont think cute girls just drop there pants as fast as a hooker when you show her some $$$$

 

[PDubb75]

Think about where you are right now. On a discussion board about how to pick up women. If it were as easy as you are looking for, this site would have no purpose. We are here because there is a process (sometimes time-intensive and difficult) to get what we want with women. Anyone REALLY worth pursuing isn't going to fvck you 10 minutes after you meet her. Learning some decent technique combined with good practice can drastically reduce the time, but that in itself takes time.

The thing is, practice takes a lot more time than asking for advice on here. But practice will pay off 1,000,000x what reading anything on here can do for you. This place is going to provide good starting points, especially to get you in the right mind-set, but nothing you simply read is going to make girls fall all over you for effortless sex.

Why are you so set on getting girls in bed so quickly? I mean, yeah, we all want that. But you are making it sound like all or nothing. Patience can pay off...

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Think about where you are right now. On a discussion board about how to pick up women. If it were as easy as you are looking for, this site would have no purpose. We are here because there is a process (sometimes time-intensive and difficult) to get what we want with women. Anyone REALLY worth pursuing isn't going to fvck you 10 minutes after you meet her. Learning some decent technique combined with good practice can drastically reduce the time, but that in itself takes time.

The thing is, practice takes a lot more time than asking for advice on here. But practice will pay off 1,000,000x what reading anything on here can do for you. This place is going to provide good starting points, especially to get you in the right mind-set, but nothing you simply read is going to make girls fall all over you for effortless sex.

Why are you so set on getting girls in bed so quickly? I mean, yeah, we all want that. But you are making it sound like all or nothing. Patience can pay off...

Right I get ya.

Off course you have to put effort in to mmet girls and then get sex. They dont come on a plate.

The better looking you are the easier it will be though

The better your game and social skills the easier it will be.

Now, theres 2 types of people (well theres more lol but anyway for my point). Introvert/extrovert.

So, introvert dont like to meet people or crowds etc. He never goes to clubs or parties or talks to people much.

Extrovert goes to parties and clubs all the time not just for sex he loves the social vibe.

So, extrovert is gonna be in situation where he can ge sex by choice. Introvert has to do things he doesnt like....Off course the introvert can do intertnet dating (but IMO its pretty crap round here).

So, there are 3 obstacles to getting sex really.

1. Looks...Ok I think I look at least decent so thats fine.

2. Socialising....I dont have any interest in being social or going to social gatherings so thats bad.

3. Social skills/game......With minimal interest in being social social skills and game are lacking.

Overall, being social and going to social events is a job for me not natural not fun. THis sucks for getting sex.

Why do I just want easy sex? Well with little desire to be social I just want to subsitute porn for females in reality. Its a physical rather than mental desire.



I know a guy at work fat and bald he goes out all the time at weekend gets drunk loadsa parties and gets decent girls....WHY? becuase he is lively and makes effort.

If Bradd Pitt stays in his bedroom all night he dont get laid.

So, the options was to try day game? or Internet Dating? Or escorts? acquire fuk buddys?

I guess all have there pros/cons....

 

[f283000]

It's better to have 1 girl IF she satisfies you and totally makes you happy.

I'm the type that has advocated playing the game and seeing as many women as you can but this doesn't make me a hypocrite. When I say to spin plates that's because 99% of the guys on sosuave have oneitis with women they come here to complain about! Women that are BPD's and nothing but drama.

A relationship with a woman that's hot, caring, comes with no mental baggage and does everything to satisfy you is better than chasing random sloots in the club.

But unfortunately 99% of us will not meet such women as they are gems that are rare and hard to find so we have no option but to spin plates.

Let's be honest with ourselves how many women have we met that truly deserved "all our love" and were so good to us that we wouldn't even have dreamed of spinning plates on the side?

Maybe its my high standards, maybe it's the low quality of the women today but I just have not met any woman in my whole life that I thought was good enough to be the mother of my children and warranted me not even daring to game other women in the side.

 

[bigneil]

"A successful seducer always pursues more than one woman."

Louis/Copeland

Sorted Best to Worst:

1) In relationship with a girl you love who loves you and 2+ other girls interested (3+ total).
2) Being single with 2+ girls interested (2+ total).
3) In relationship with a girl you love who loves you and no other girls (1 total).
4) Being single with no girls (0 total).
5) In relationship with a girl you love who doesn't love you and no other girls (-1 total).

Sadly, many married men are in situation 5.

Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Plus, use your confidence and "taken factor" to score more girls when you can. Otherwise she could randomly dump you and then you'll have the aura of the rejected man, which takes a month to shake normally.