"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think it would be a good Idea to say you're a DJ

TheEdgeOf

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Do you think it would be a good idea to tell your AFC/natural friends that you are Pick-up artist. why or why not?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No, they would just laugh at you. What you should do is do your magic, and let them wonder how you did it. Then let the cat out of the bag. Turn them on to it. Anyway, being a PUA is still a chump with techniques.
 

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Well Mav, here's the thing. A friend of mine has recently been hurt by a girl and I kind of feel bad for him. I want to show him that there's a better way, but I'm not sure how he will react to it.
 

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Alright, a little FR on what happened. Okay, so I decided to try telling two friends about this and try to get them into the whole DJ thing.

My first friend, the one who was hurt recently, seemed to actually be interested in this and was very open to what I showed him. I think that he really might take this information to heart and use it well.

My other friend, who seems to have DJs confused with some type of informed players, didn't take it so well. He basically thinks that any information that you get from the internet is wrong and refuses to believe that what I'm telling him could be true. If he doesn't want to believe, there's nothing I can do to change his mind except show him what this website has helped me to become.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm not satisfied with this yet, I want to know more about what you guys think of it. Anyone had any experiences with this before?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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The game is to be sold. Not to be told.
 
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