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Do you think it is appropriate for wifey to name your son after her previous paramour?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at this reddit post, and it got me interested:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/8bjgbb
My wife named our son after her first love and I had no idea

My son is 5. About 2 days ago we were out shopping and ran into a high school friend of hers. She was catching up when she told her friend that we had a son. When the old friend asked his name my wife hesitated and I told her. She had a strange look on her face then said you mean like your ex boyfriend. Our sons name is very unique to the point that I've never met another person with the same name. Now she refuses to talk to me about it. I feel betrayed and disgusted with her. It's like a switch was flipped my mind and I just can't look at her the same way.
my opinion: :mad::mad:
 

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Wow. I can´t f0cking believe this woman. He should divorce, get custody of the kid and change the kid´s name.

One more reason not to marry a girl with a high lay count.
 

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Wow. I can´t f0cking believe this woman. He should divorce, get custody of the kid and change the kid´s name.

One more reason not to marry a girl with a high lay count.
problem here is not a high lay count, it could be just her HS boyfriend then the hub, looks more like alpha widow thing then high lay count.

i'm pretty sure he liked that name so it matter little, he named the kid with the same she come up with without asking where is come from. if you ask me on this case is too much drama for little reason, her hesitation would be more annoying then anything, its like she is ashamed of the name now.
 
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Very innappropriate. In fact it may even have to do with an abortion she had because he didn’t want her. I know two women like that.
 

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This is what happens when you are not your wifes first choice...

Anyway unbelievable how low can cvnts go if left unchecked.

LOOLLL i was going to say the same thing.

The dure aint her first choice.

The first love left such an imprint that she tagged the name of her kid on him... You know to bound again.

It sucks, it doesnt mean she's a hoe etc... But her clear refusal to mention it does mean: She still into her ex..

The dude probably been with her for as long the baby was alive + 9 months + 1. He could be that ONS that rebounded
 
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What she did was beyond disrespectful. She didn’t tell him because she knew he would be upset so she does it anyway. Very selfish and mean.

He should now nickname her vagina with the name of an ex girlfriend.
 

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Lol. How could he not realize how it is before he got her pregnant. Unbelievable
 

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[QUOTE="AJ84, post: 2573446, member: 136287"
He should now nickname her vagina with the name of an ex girlfriend.[/QUOTE]
That’s a hell of an idea. I would do it in a heart beat.
 

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Oh nice catch.
Nah the kid is white with a black name haha and her ex was black.

I remember reading this thread on reddit when it came out, the girls family all knew about it (obv) and stayed silent too. The guy was shafted by the whole family looool
 

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Nah the kid is white with a black name haha and her ex was black.

I remember reading this thread on reddit when it came out, the girls family all knew about it (obv) and stayed silent too. The guy was shafted by the whole family looool
Its terrible
 

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It wouldn't be so bad if she just liked the name, but if it's clearly motivated by her ex then that's basically a cucking. How do you cuck a man without bothering to cheat?
 
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