"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think I'm pretty?

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Yookiwooki

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Met this girl at orientation, we've been in contact for almost a month. Because we live an hour and a half apart, we have have not met since we first met each other. She has flaked on me once because she was sick.

Tonight we have a date planned at a movie theater halfway between us.

She sends me this text asking: "Do you think I'm pretty?"

I've had enough experience to know that this is ticking bomb, and I should tread carefully. What should I say to this?

I'm thinking of just playing it off ****y and funny by replying, "Do you think I'M pretty? :p"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Say this line, as in it will be an added reason to see you...

"You will find out if you come to the movies this time with me ;]"

This is mysterious, will drive her crazy trying to think HOW you will indicate if she is pretty or not, and sort of brings up the past experience of her flaking. It is interesting how more willing a girl becomes to make YOU like her, she will care how much you like her if you begin to show signs of mixed feelings of like and not like.
 
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BUT Do not pull an AFC move by actually telling her she is pretty by words, communicate using KINO. Be smart here. Do Kino places on her you feel are pretty. Key word pretty. Such as her ear rings by touching her brushing her hair away slightly to see them, or her arm by jokefully saying look at these guns. Both of which are fairly safe, move to more risky areas once you gauge she is liking you a lot. Have fun! so will she, dating is a game that does not need to be nervewracking.
 
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Say, "if I threw your ass in the air, it would probably turn into sunshine!"

You can c+f by exaggerating the compliment also. This way, you wont risk truly hurting her feelings.

BTW, dont overthink the rule of not directly complimenting too much. You could write her back and say, "sure" or "yes" and it will not hurt your game. The reul is there to keep you from saying a bunch of sappy shyt, and coming off as lower value.

What I do, is tell them 'matter of factly.' like "yeah, you're good looking." in a nonchalant way.
Just dont say anything like "You are soo beautiful, what are you doing with ME?"
 
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