"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Do you think I'm pretty?"

Aragon034

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from my experience, they usually want validation. if i'm feeling daring, i'll motion them to come closer as if i'm going to whisper something, then move in for the kiss. it gets a great reaction when you say "That should answer your question." or something to that effect.

otherwise i'd do exactly what HandyAndy did, tease them mercilessly :p

i find though that the chicks that ask this are usually the ones who dress up a bit more (or less), use more makeup, and basically try and look prettier from the outset.

Also i find guys get asked this question more often when they're in the middle of a good gaming period, sort of like teh chick sees the higher value and wants to be judged by it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah if you said it with a cheeky smile and a sarcastic tone, plus she is pretty you did all what is asked of you in the attraction game, even if she is a friend its good to keep yourself and them on their toes.. I think someone said you wouldnt like it if you asked someone if you were handsome and they said no, but if they said it in the same sarcastic ****y funny way you did, then it would convey as "she knows I'm attractive but is playing with me"
So yeah you did nothing wrong...But you know that and she wanted the answer you gave..in the tone you gave it!!
 

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Effington said:
I always thought that was the "kiss me" line. She's obviously looking for validation; it's a win-win.
Well we were in class, no kiss :nono: lol

Never heard of the kiss me line either


Aragon034 said:
from my experience, they usually want validation. if i'm feeling daring, i'll motion them to come closer as if i'm going to whisper something, then move in for the kiss. it gets a great reaction when you say "That should answer your question." or something to that effect.

otherwise i'd do exactly what HandyAndy did, tease them mercilessly :p

i find though that the chicks that ask this are usually the ones who dress up a bit more (or less), use more makeup, and basically try and look prettier from the outset.

Also i find guys get asked this question more often when they're in the middle of a good gaming period, sort of like teh chick sees the higher value and wants to be judged by it.
Well see, we've been friends, and only friends for a little over 2 years, I knew her back in middle school too. I dont have any feelings for this girl, so I wouldnt have wanted to go in for the kiss.

It would have been extremely awkward since I think of her just as a friend, and I dont get many IOIs from here either, plus we were in class :)

PectoralisMajor said:
Yeah if you said it with a cheeky smile and a sarcastic tone, plus she is pretty you did all what is asked of you in the attraction game, even if she is a friend its good to keep yourself and them on their toes.. I think someone said you wouldnt like it if you asked someone if you were handsome and they said no, but if they said it in the same sarcastic ****y funny way you did, then it would convey as "she knows I'm attractive but is playing with me"
So yeah you did nothing wrong...But you know that and she wanted the answer you gave..in the tone you gave it!!
Thanks :) :up:
 
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