"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you think Heather Locklear had nervous breakdown because she'd realized that she'd hit the wall?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about who arguably was the sexiest woman that I, back in my youth, knew about, and it got me interested:

https://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/celebr...-says-she-was-violent-and-suicidal/ar-AAySnhv

my opinion: A woman who has spent her whole life getting a great deal in life because of her beauty cannot handle that it has been taken away. She has not had to learn how to be a person who has to earn stuff on her own without using her beauty. Instead of finding a high-quality husband, she spent her extraordinarily ample youthful beauty on chasing bad boy rockers who ended up moving on to younger poon tang.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most women don't age well. But, for women who take care of themselves and don't have entitlement issues, the transition is likely softer.

I see older 40-50yo asian ladies...and think Wow! they still look really good, even with wrinkles. I may be biased though...lolz!:p
 
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