"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think Heather Locklear had nervous breakdown because she'd realized that she'd hit the wall?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about who arguably was the sexiest woman that I, back in my youth, knew about, and it got me interested:

https://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/celebr...-says-she-was-violent-and-suicidal/ar-AAySnhv

my opinion: A woman who has spent her whole life getting a great deal in life because of her beauty cannot handle that it has been taken away. She has not had to learn how to be a person who has to earn stuff on her own without using her beauty. Instead of finding a high-quality husband, she spent her extraordinarily ample youthful beauty on chasing bad boy rockers who ended up moving on to younger poon tang.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Most women don't age well. But, for women who take care of themselves and don't have entitlement issues, the transition is likely softer.

I see older 40-50yo asian ladies...and think Wow! they still look really good, even with wrinkles. I may be biased though...lolz!:p
 
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