"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you think folks do LASIK surgery simply to show genetic fitness?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/06/11/well/lasik-complications-vision.html

my opinion: Folks (of either sex) are doing this to try and get a "leg up" in the dating market by showing better genetic fitness (i.e., good eyesight), and thus is the same category as breast implants for genetically unfit women with no tiits, or any type of deviation from what a good genetic face is (the YouTube channel FaceAndLMS is highly recommended for its discussion of facial features that are considered attractive).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How would lasik give you a "leg up" in the dating market? Wearing glasses really that much of a deterrent in the dating world?

Putting it in the same category as breast implants is silly. There is zero change in ones appearance from lasik.
 

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Shoot I like my glasses more then I like my contacts...if I were not partially blind lol I'd probably still rock glasses without a prescription.
 

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How would lasik give you a "leg up" in the dating market? Wearing glasses really that much of a deterrent in the dating world?

Putting it in the same category as breast implants is silly. There is zero change in ones appearance from lasik.
The idea is that someone having a LASIK procedure would not need glasses, and so yes, glasses changes the appearance, with the most important result being a display of genetic unfitness, at least to a certain degree. And of course, this is the reason why folks wear contacts, but they are a PITA.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shoot I like my glasses more then I like my contacts...if I were not partially blind lol I'd probably still rock glasses without a prescription.
So you are saying that glasses is now a fashion accoutrement that even folks with good vision would want to don? Perhaps with the rise of the rich computer nerd, females now see this as an alpha trait?
 

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So you are saying that glasses is now a fashion accoutrement that even folks with good vision would want to don? Perhaps with the rise of the rich computer nerd, females now see this as an alpha trait?
What I am saying is I never met a women ever mention glasses being a turn off, or they wouldn't date a guy who wore glasses. What I have heard women say is glasses make a man look more handsome (shrug). To each his own but I actually get drawn to women who wear glasses. I think it makes them look more unique, sophisticated. Not like people who wear glasses have them permanently glued to their face. Have you not seen the trend of people wearing glasses with no prescription or frames with no glass?
 
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The idea is that someone having a LASIK procedure would not need glasses, and so yes, glasses changes the appearance, with the most important result being a display of genetic unfitness, at least to a certain degree. And of course, this is the reason why folks wear contacts, but they are a PITA.
Wearing glasses has not been an issue for people in the dating market. Like some woman saying no to a man who wears glasses because she doesn't want her kids to be genetic defects? This is grasping, even for you lol.

People surgically correct their vision for many reasons, convenience being one of them.
 

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another thing you are aware then breast implants, this eye sight correction and nay other things like this don't change the genetics, at the most it works on that person self esteem, of course unless people start to do like that chinese guy who after having 2 kids with a woman he divorced and sued her for lying to him :p
 
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