"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think Colorado completely decriminalizing prostitution will result in a lot of sexless men moving there?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not sure, but I don’t think so judging the city
I live in Toronto, and honestly, the majority of the population here is non-white. In terms of escort ads, there is a significant amount that says "no blacks". You are not interacting with them or looking at their ads so you don't know how it's really like by looking at a city's demographics.
 

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Cultural genocide.

 

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I live in Toronto, and honestly, the majority of the population here is non-white. In terms of escort ads, there is a significant amount that says "no blacks". You are not interacting with them or looking at their ads so you don't know how it's really like by looking at a city's demographics.
It's OVER for BlackJohnCels.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's OVER for BlackJohnCels.
I didn't say all of them. There is also allot of ads that say nothing, and a few that will either say all is welcome, or have an image shot of a black c0ck going in her pvssy or mouth right on the ad while the escort is white (ie strongly implying she does black clients -- of course, I have yet to see a white gal with a black guy railing her on a photo and it says "no blacks"....then I would really have to conclude something is up).

In fact, I'm more of a troll when it comes to these places. I go as far as the door, but won't knock or see if the knob is locked or not, but just bolt out of there as though the door is a portal to another dimension outside of the realm of known physics. (ie that was last April, I didn't try anything like that since). Given the last time I went through a door in 2014.

The best analogy of their door is the one that Neo went through in the Matrix:


It really is crossing a threshold. Best to leave it alone for now.

I guess you go through those doors allot. But mentally, it's more like how it's portrayed in the video to me, the last time in 2014.

Every moral idenity, moral compass, moral dimensions, get twisted in that realm, like its' just pure moral chaos.

Some people like the chaos. With me it caused misalignment in the past.

With me keeping that door closed and not challenging it by staying there, knocking on it, or texting that I'm there, I believe has preserved my sanity. I can pray and join in worship with the family without feeling like I'm about to throw up. You can't do these things and get back to being all religious like that afterwards without wanting to vomit.
 

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lol prostitutes? Screw that.

Learn to sexually transmute that energy and make that cash. Learn stocks, invest, get some side hustles going and stop looking at porn when you can be out there creating your future lol.
 

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lol prostitutes? Screw that.

Learn to sexually transmute that energy and make that cash. Learn stocks, invest, get some side hustles going and stop looking at porn when you can be out there creating your future lol.
Exactly and then you can use the cash to......
 

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I'm honestly not so sure, but I can speak to how the state changed after lifting restrictions on sale, possession, use and distribution of recreational MJ. I asked a former resident of the state what she thought. Her response was "They'd better not if they know what's good for them." I've traveled to and through that state multiple times, but have never lived there. Take that for what it's worth.
 

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When I'll be 60 or older, I'll move to escortmaxxing full time unless married.
There will be a moment where I will not be able to get genuine attraction from women I find attractive or at least decent.

At some point the biggest obstacle to attending escorts collapse which is not money but ego.

For the average guy hitting escorts is safer, more reliable and definitly time/cost effective compared to traditional dating, dinners, hitting clubs and drinking but there is one big obstacle.

The young average guy still think he can make it if he put enough effort as if someone that doesnt reach the minimum threeshold established from the banks could get a big loan from them.

After a certain age, most men understand where they stand and what they can get out of women wheter is genuinen raw attraction, transactional intimacy due to money-status or nothing but contempt.

That's when ego is no longer a factor and the decisions become rational, thats when speed dating events or social gatherings become 90% female attendance with men nowhere to be seen.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who the f gives a f about Colorado, tbh
No more. Especially with the passing of SB25-003. I'm not a felon, but I would be living in that state!
 

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I think I'm at the transactional stage of life. :rolleyes:
Most men never experience the raw physical attraction probably.

That's a gift for very few young guys blessed from a great aestetics and/or great status among the peers.

In my opinion a young goodlooking dj in his 20s can get what the rock or george clooney cant get now.
 

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One thing that surprised me about Colorado the few times I visited it has a plethora of low-key hot chicks; the culture there is very focused on being fit. The main issue, though, is a lot of women are on the far left.

Great place to have fun but not sure that I would live there since every other block smells like weed once you hit downtown
In today's episode; Black dude wants woman with far right ideologies...

What could go wrong???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not sure what race has to do with anything. I was talking about values and compatibility, not identity.
Bruh...

That has ANYTHING to do with it. Wake up.
You're a black dude, you're decreasing your chances of actually finding someone compatible with this mindset. Get your facts straight.

Be apolitical when you chase women. Best option.
 

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Not sure what race has to do with anything. I was talking about values and compatibility, not identity.
Look, women are FAR more racist, even tho the word racist is kinda confusing because their ideology might not be but the outcomes they'll push THEMSELVES will be.

I'll explain:
- women on one hand will " have a type". And that type will definitely be influenced by something as mundane as skin color. You can be a toptier ..Indian dude and yet Stacey won't ever touch you with a ten foot pole...men on the other hand..we don't mind banging a hot Punjabi or a hot blonde. Let's not even talk about actual relationships.

The meme " I want a 6,5 in finance with blue eyes" went viral for a reason. Most women are also protected by " their community ". E.g : an Arab woman might literally be murdered if she comes home with a atheist black dude. A suburban white woman will definitely be aware of how her family and entire circle will look at her if she steps outside too much.

Just saying
 

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Look, women are FAR more racist, even tho the word racist is kinda confusing because their ideology might not be but the outcomes they'll push THEMSELVES will be.

I'll explain:
- women on one hand will " have a type". And that type will definitely be influenced by something as mundane as skin color. You can be a toptier ..Indian dude and yet Stacey won't ever touch you with a ten foot pole...men on the other hand..we don't mind banging a hot Punjabi or a hot blonde. Let's not even talk about actual relationships.

The meme " I want a 6,5 in finance with blue eyes" went viral for a reason. Most women are also protected by " their community ". E.g : an Arab woman might literally be murdered if she comes home with a atheist black dude. A suburban white woman will definitely be aware of how her family and entire circle will look at her if she steps outside too much.

Just saying
That’s a lot of assumptions off one observation. I’m good just sticking to values and letting the right fit show up
 

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That’s a lot of assumptions off one observation. I’m good just sticking to values and letting the right fit show up
You take it personal but I'm talking generally.

You think there's ANY member here that doesn't have your values lol. But there's also something called " female preferences ". Just saying this for ANY black Indian and even Latin dude to keep shyte real with themselves.


Game smarter,not harder.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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