Something deep down in the female psyche wants to be destroyed by a powerful man, No I don’t necessary mean literally, perhaps a better word than destroyed would be..absorbed, but this can range from the traditional housewife who wants a strong dominant man to destroy her metaphorical soul, so she can be alleviated of the burden of having to navigate reality, opting instead of having her independent mind intact, to let her man do all the thinking and all the deciding, all the way to women who literally want to have their real soul, their very lives devoured by charismatic psychopaths.