“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you think chicks cringe at public marriage proposals because they have to make a split-second hypergamy determination?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at an article about this, and it got me thinking. The reason that so many women cringe at this is because by accepting the proposal, a woman has to say to herself, "this is the best I can hope for", and the hamster brain wants to make sure that this is the right decision.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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if they cringy it means she is not sure of him yet, and at that time she have to decide if he is or not, and then happen the problem, there is other people around to confirm her decision and that makes diffiult for her to back down later

they just don't want to be acountable for they decision nothing more or less
 

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I would hate it because its a transparently manipulative attempt to force her to say yes by putting her on the spot in front of a bunch of people. Not exactly the actions of someone who loves you.
 

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I believe that deep down inside a woman will love whatever attention and validation she would get and whatever happens don't really matter because she got her moment in the spotlight.
 

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I dont like agreements between parts than involve third parts even as specators.
 
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