"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think castrated males live longer because they don't have the stress of dealing with trying to find a female to mate with?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:


Men and other mammals live longer if they are castrated, says researcher
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Any article that opens with "A new study shows..." is to be regarded with more suspicion than a stand-up comic who swears:

"I'm doing this just to make people laugh and bring joy to the world: Regularly being the center of attention doesn't comprise at least 50% of my motivation"
 

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Hi MDJ,
You pose an interesting question....In the absence of Pierce might I suggest that the increased longevity might also be due to decreased testosterone levels possibly decreasing the risks of Cancer?....Being in a steady relationship also reduces Testosterone significantly and improves longevity another causal link?
 

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Its something chemical in the body. Its already been proven that castrated animals live longer than non-castrated. Scientists are trying to understand why that is. They believe there is a definite link between male hormones(testosterone) and aging. Castrated male DNA is more similar to female DNA. Its likely that when you slow down the production of testosterone, you slow down aging.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its likely that when you slow down the production of testosterone, you slow down aging.
The older you get the less testosterone you produce.

So, the older you get, the longer you'll live?

I'd argue the reason is chemical and hormonal rather than worrying about getting women.

@MatureDJ Are you thinking of cutting off your nuts?
 
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