"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think a man having a tattoo signals that he is sexual-partner material and not husband material?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
Aside from women’s reports that men looked healthier with tattoos, the study also showed that women felt men with tattoos looked more masculine, dominant, and aggressive.
So, were there any downsides? Well, that depends on how you look at it. Women felt that tattoos signalled to the man’s impulsiveness and his propensity for risk-taking. While these qualities might be construed negatively for women seeking long-term partners, they’re considered positively in the initial stages of attraction and mate selection. That’s really to say: women see tattooed men as better sex partners than long-term boyfriends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AttackFormation

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Only a man who is completely clueless to women would consider it some kind of 50:50 tradeoff that women see those men as better for sex than a provider. Fact is that their standards for men are higher for sex partners than for providers. That means if a woman is eager to have sex with a man, she will very likely be glad if he commits to her as well anyway should he so feel like it. She just may not expect it from the man. She is happy to just have sex with him, unlike with mr "long term".

Personally I have no tattoos and don't plan on getting any. Never felt the inclination, and I certainly won't do it just for some vapid pvssy.
 
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Who Dares Win

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What many men dont understand is that if a woman wants to have sex with a man, she is almost surely interested in having a relationship with him too since women give sex only to men they consider attractive and worth.

For men it works the other way around, very few are the women a man wouldnt back if no commitment or work was necessary while when it comes of a relationship the requisites would be much higher.

In this case like many others, men and women behave differently.

Im surprised to hear here and there some retarded saying that if a woman makes you wait its a good sign cause she see you worth of a relationship and not "just sex".

Poor morons cant see that the benchmark is sex to gauge your value to her and not if she dines with you.
 

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I love how they say, "there's a 'story' behind every tattoo" and how they can't afford to have one removed so they tattoo somethin over the old tattoo to created something different. I tell these girls NOT to do it, not to get anymore (I mean, she's makin minimum wage yet forks over $75 for another tat - it's 'ok' wallow in your soup of waste vat poison brain, I don't wantcha), and she promptly goes out and gets yet another or defies what I tell her (at 20 yrs old) for her own good. It's "hee hee hee hee" guys are lighin up my phone left n' right, I don't have to listen to YOU. I'm like fine, ok, you go down that road, go ahead. She equates life to a game and not to Real breathin-oxygen existence or to something sacred or precious. Dumb as rabbits.
 
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