“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Do you think a chick that says she is looking for a "travel buddy" is really looking for some guy to spend money on global vacations for her?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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pipeman84
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1. as if being 32 and on Tinder wasn't bad enough, the first photo she uploads is not very clear and doesn't show very much she looks like, which means she probably is dishonest and a time waster
2. she first said she's looking for her soul mate, so her mentioning 'travel buddy' I see it as a way of expressing that she likes to travel.
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As for the travel part of it, maybe she does enjoy travel. The only way that a 32 year old woman can get to travel regularly is if she has a Girl Boss high paying job or her parents fund her travels. It's possible that she's looking for a male to replace her parents in funding her travels.
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So true. That's a basic White woman's profile.
That's insightful. Be Chad.
Alpha Fux, Beta Bux
They replaced dogs with cats in the past several years because of the stigma of “get a cat and box wine and die alone”.
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The whole 'cat lady' thing had a stigma as far back as the 1990s, if not further. Even in the 1990s in my childhood, I have memories of single women 30+ owning multiple cats. In the 1990s, single women 30+ were less common than 2010-present.
The dog thing has gotten bigger because the Millennial generation transformed dog ownership upon reaching adulthood in the 2000s/early 2010s. Prior to the Millennials, when people owned dogs, they owned them later in life after getting married and often getting a single family home. Starting in the 2000s, Millennials changed that and refused to wait until later in life to get dogs. They started getting dogs as single, never married people.
