"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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do you talk to her if you notice she keeps looking over?

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yea anyway, lets say the previous day you and this girl gets along pretty well. and her IL rises even more when she finds out you have a special talent, that makes you "different".

and today, every once in awhile she looks over at you. but the whole time you do your own thing, yet dont say hi. But lets say the next time you see her you talk to her again.

Would it be helpful or hurtful to your game?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol i always notice alot more girls are talking to me when its football day and im wearing a jersey and my muscles are showing
 
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Speak to her when you see her if you choose to speak to her, or simply say hi when you dont. Dont chase them let them chase you! If you are worrying about what to do next then you are chasing her whether you know it or not. Let women chase you. You do that by just being and not forceing anything!
 
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Originally posted by Royal Elite
Speak to her when you see her if you choose to speak to her, or simply say hi when you dont. Dont chase them let them chase you! If you are worrying about what to do next then you are chasing her whether you know it or not. Let women chase you. You do that by just being and not forceing anything!
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Wait i thought the purpose of the DJ was to do the chasing...
besides i've never encountered a girl that did the chasing unles their IL was sky high
 
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Hurtful. Playing hard to get doesn't work if you don't make the first step.

I'm closing this because you're all idiots.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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