"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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do you take the condom off right after you finish or lie there?

LoneWolf

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i always feel awkward when i finish... i take my dik out of her and then get the condom off it and wipe my dik with tissue, then i can finally just lie there. i just feel weird with the condom on me with all my sperm visible for her to see. kinda gross. do you guys do that too or you just finish and lie there with the condom on? i felt she wanted to just cuddle n kiss a bit right after i came. but we still did when i finished cleaning myself and she went to the bathroom, came back and we just lay there naked under the blankets for a while.

im just not that experienced with having sex with a girl i like. the other girls who ive had sex with id just get up, clean myself, put clothes on and tell them thats it for the night lol. but its different cause me and this girl are kind of together now. so yeah its all new to me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lay there if you want to lay there.

Why does it matter what I do? There's no rulebook on this stuff. Be comfortable in your own skin.
 

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Dude you ask some really weird and strange questions.

How is that strange at all for your jizz to be laid out in a bag? That's the point of the condom is it not? and wtf you wipe your **** with a tissue? just toss your boxers on lol. Especially if you're comfortable around this girl (vs. the 'other' random hoes) it shouldn't matter.

I think you are intentionally making things awkward when you could just stop posting new thread over every little thing and use your common sense. Seriously try it sometime, it's there, you just gotta find it.


I guess the positive here is that you are asking us instead of... her... At least I can only hope so. :kick:
 

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lol im not that dumb. it's not so much as asking you guys... i like to hear other peoples opinions and what they do. i didn't think it was weird or such a big deal to ask. its like one of them things you talk about with ur buddies "do you throw it away when you finish or just lie there." no biggie man. sorry if it creeped you out :)

and i meant when you finish and lay back.. the sperm goes down all over your dik thats why i had to take the condom off then wipe my dik with a tissue plus all the other left over sperm hangin off the end of my dik that i wipe off. i dont just throw on my boxers with a sticky dik man lol. even my ex fuk buddy use to hand me the tissue box whenever we finished. i thought it was normal :S
 

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LoneWolf said:
when you finish the sperm goes down all over your dik
Interesting problem. Never heard of that one :nervous:

get a bigger weenie :woo:


or smaller condoms :kick:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rocket87 said:
Interesting problem. Never heard of that one :nervous:

get a bigger weenie :woo:


or smaller condoms :kick:
:crackup: that condom should be tight enough to where if it ripped , you would immediately know it , not some loose garbage bag that's a definite risk. don't buy magnums if you cant fill them lol
 

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Either I am doing it wrong -- or most that replied in this thread are, but ...

I always take the condom off and blow on their back / stomach / face..

Thought this was standard.. I have never blown my load into a condom or cleaned up myself.

We fvck. I *** on her. She grabs a towel or has one ready. And then have her wipe my dvck off.
 

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its not gay to wipe your dik with a tissue.. everyones different i suppose.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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powpow said:
haha you chumps wear condoms?
yeah, but aids is a *****. You can't be too careful the way girls get around these days. I'd like to stay disease free, and more importantly.... kid free.
 

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LoneWolf said:
i always feel awkward when i finish... i take my dik out of her and then get the condom off it and wipe my dik with tissue, then i can finally just lie there. i just feel weird with the condom on me with all my sperm visible for her to see. kinda gross. do you guys do that too or you just finish and lie there with the condom on? i felt she wanted to just cuddle n kiss a bit right after i came. but we still did when i finished cleaning myself and she went to the bathroom, came back and we just lay there naked under the blankets for a while.

im just not that experienced with having sex with a girl i like. the other girls who ive had sex with id just get up, clean myself, put clothes on and tell them thats it for the night lol. but its different cause me and this girl are kind of together now. so yeah its all new to me.

wtf??? why should it be any different who you bang? why would you leave a used condom on? why do you feel the need to clean? haha wipe it off with a tissue...this is weird stuff to ask man....you shouldnt even have sex if its that much of a hassle for you.


powpow said:
haha you chumps wear condoms?
LMAO....you're not laughing now are you? how did not using condoms work out for you? not very well....you're the chump now with a kid to support...enjoy!!

As my dear old aunt always says...."laughing comes crying."
 
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