"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you take more BS from a woman with whom you have great sexual chemistry?

WoodB

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As for myself, I am sorry to admit that no matter how many years go by, the amount of bs and snarkiness I tolerate from a woman is still directly porportional to the sexual chemistry we share. It seems to be a reflex reaction connected to the most primitive parts of our brain. Thus, most of us make the same mistakes over and over.

Is there an antidote to this "illness"?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The antidote is abundance.

The more plentiful women and sex are in your life the less sh!t you will put up with.

The more options you have the less likely you will spend time in a bad situation.

It is that easy.
 

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Slickster said:
The antidote is abundance.

The more plentiful women and sex are in your life the less sh!t you will put up with.

The more options you have the less likely you will spend time in a bad situation.

It is that easy.
Yes. That's why a BPD girlfriend will suck the life out of you. You know if you walk out that door, you aint getting any tonight.

That's also the reason why (I just realized:cheer:) that BPD's are always quick to attach to someone and try to make them their boyfriend. The only way they can be themselves(BPD) and get laid on a continual basis, is to have a boyfriend:down:
 
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