“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you suffer from having too many interests?

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I do. And I find it tiring trying to juggle them.

My interests are art/sketching/design, financial markets, electronic music production, self development, and gym.

I tend to go through phases of concentrating on one to juggling all of them and then the pattern repeats. Sometimes I find it really tiring to the point where I have zero free time and feel a bit all over the place.

The only thing I seem to stay consistent with is the gym recently.

Can anyone else relate to this or am I on my own here?
 

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Same here. Will elaborate later.
 

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All the bloody time. If I quit my job, I probably still wouldn't have enough time to do the things I love. That's why it blows me away when I meet someone who says they don't have a hobby. How the fvck can somebody not have one? There's so much 5hit out there to learn and do.

I also don't consider playing video games a hobby. That's like saying watching TV while twirling a fidget spinner is a hobby.
 

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I have the exact opposite problem. No time to partake in the things I'm interested in. I can't remember the last time I went fishing for example. Between work, kid time, gf time, and reading time I only get a little bit of friend time which is usually spent drinking and talking about work, kids, girlfriends/boyfriends/wives/husbands, and the last sh!t we read.

Hobbies are for when I'm retired.
 

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Opposite. I have none hobbies, but looking for one
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This has always been a problem for me. It's so easy to spread oneself too thin. To this day I'm hard at work trying to get a handle on it. I've been trying different ways to allocate time for each interest with mixed results. Somehow hard allocation tends to take the spontaneity out of some interests.
 

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I cycle through interests. I'll be intensely interested in some. Let that fade a little bit, then pick up something new. There are hobbies that I would like to return to with time, motivation, and finances to support them with a curious/willing attitude.

The good thing about having so many interests I would say also helps you relate to others in conversation.

I got a beer and some pizza with my best friend last night and we talked about guitars, musical genres, sound effects from amps, pedals, and mixers for about 15-45 minutes. I would definitely not had that same conversation four months ago.
 
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