Do you still care what your ex thinks of you?

[captain55]

Answer honestly, how many of you guys are still haunted by the thought of an ex girlfriend not being physically attracted to you anymore? This is something I've been trying to get over for a while now. It's the first thing on my mind every morning I wake up.

Yeah I know she's just a stupid c u n t and "who cares what some dumb chick thinks of you" right? but the truth is most of us take quite a bit of pride in our physical appearance So when a woman rejects us by telling us she's not physically attracted to us it's basicly her telling us we aren't man enough for her.

I realize that's life, not every chick is going to be sexually attracted to you but I would like to know if there are guys here who are struggling with this issue right now or have in the past with a particular girl.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

At this point in my life, it doesn't bug me. Granted, you shouldn't really know what an ex thinks about your look because you shouldn't be in contact with her, but even if she told me to my face "you are no longer attractive to me," I don't let personal opinions like that bother me anymore. I'm very much detached to the outcome of relationships - if it works, great; if not, find your happiness and I'll find someone else. So, yeah - not bugged by it at all.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Nope. I don't even really care what my current girl thinks of me. It's what I think of me that counts.

Deep down I think YOU don't think much of you, OP, and it's time to change that so you can let this girl go because she's on your mind with every thread you start. You stopped believing in yourself and she followed your lead. Flip the script on yourself guy.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

IMO for the most part you can throw physically attraction out the window. She's just hurt & wants revenge by saying this sh*t. She is only saying this cause she knows it's going f*ck with your head man. Stop giving 2 f*cks! She's full of sh*t man.

WOMAN thrive off of EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION way more than physical. They all have different ratio's, percentages but woman all feed of the emotional part, it's how you making them feel way more than muscle & looks etc.

IDGAF what ex's think, honestly I think most of them are probably still attracted to me. We have all ended relationships & then turned around & f*cked them again cause we are still attracted but in the end it's the emotional part that is DEAD.

 

[captain55]

Nope. No one is attracted to anyone after a year or so. There's really nothing to wonder about. I think your self esteem has taken a serious hit my man, I know I had some of the same thoughts as a very inexperienced man coming out if my own BPD relationship. Whether a BPD finds you attractive has to be the worst metric of attractiveness on the planet.

She went out and got pregnant with some other guy less than a month after breaking up with me. What took years to build up as a Don Juan was literally all thrown down the drain in a matter of seconds. Every man's worst nightmare...mine came true.

 

[Mr_Stinky]

She went out and got pregnant with some other guy less than a month after breaking up with me. What took years to build up as a Don Juan was literally all thrown down the drain in a matter of seconds. Every man's worst nightmare...mine came true.

That's her mistake dude.

You're off the hook. This girl had baby rabies. She literally was simply looking for a donor.

If you were playing video games, this would be game over. Just restart the game. Simply with another girl. I sh!t you not, every single girl I have dated got hotter because the lessons I learned from previous "failed" relationships that ultimately paved the way to a better woman, every... single... time...

I had a girl leave me who was supposed to be my wife, life partner, best friend and mother of my children. We dated for almost 7 years.

She literally is the worst I ever did.

This is a good thing for you. Learn from this. Grow from this. Take this and run with it.

You can now improve your dating skills and position in life.

Focus on you and keep getting better.

 

[Albatross953]

Dude, she could have done so much worse. You need to focus on you. And stop worrying about what women do and why. I had tell me how good looking I am (I look like a hairy uncle fester) The week after she dumped me. Who cares!? Find another vag!!!