Do any of you guys on here (the majority are struggling it seems) get upset when you see a guy who has lower value such as less money or fat and out of shape, bald with a hot chick and you're struggling to get dates? Like that Sangholois and Attackformation, those two posters are in great physical shape and post about their struggles.
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Do you SS members get jealous when you see a lower guy than you with a hot HB?
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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SargeMaximus
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Yes. Not jealous more perplexed and annoyed and it bothers me why not me. I’m happy for the guy because we gotta support our bros, but always thinking of myself and why I can’t and they can with every metric I know of from game mostly in my favor like with my brother.
Well, they're not meeting them from OLD and the guys in their 30s probably don't know them from college. I guess it's either work or out at bars, hangouts. I don't see these types at malls, etc. doing PUA as well. Does make you wonder how they meet these HBs then.
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No because I know it’s a facade
SargeMaximus
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My brother doesn’t work out. He’s Auschwich skinny, shorter than me, wears glasses, works at a movie arcade, is woke AF, eats very unhealthy, I could go on and on. Yet he gets 7-8.5’s easily
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
mrgoodstuff
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Some of them "hot" chicks are real "competitive" and they actually don't mind a fat dude or a dude whose not that good looking, because it's less competition for her. Fitness buff guy might make her feel ugly, weak, or fat in relative comparison to herself.
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Yeah but I’m not a fitness buff either!
mrgoodstuff
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mindset?
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Oh yeah I’m definitely into fitness and nutrition. I meant I’m not buff. And yeah my brother has this weird vibe like he’s always got the higher status somehow. Doesn’t matter if he’s acting supplicant or not he’s got this “part of a club” or part of the in crowd vibe. Which seems to me is a very politically left leaning vibe otherwise why would woke culture be making such progress? People are literally scared to stand up to them
why would I?
everyone is diferent everyone do things diferent, worrying about what others do or don't don't help you on anything, only add to your distress.
first thing you need to let go is caring for what others think, then start to worry on what you can do, don't matter if you fail, failling at least give you exp, and its that exp who teaches you to do better
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Why would you ever get jealous of anyone? It's an ugly, unattractive emotion and shows you aren't happy with who you are.
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Bokanovsky
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No, I don’t. When I see someone with something I don’t have, it motivates me to improve. I don’t feel jealousy or envy. Those feelings are for losers.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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You’re gonna “mogged” by plenty of guys that will leave you scratching your head. It is what it is.
Keep a good sense of humor about it and keep moving forward.
Keep a good sense of humor about it and keep moving forward.
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AureliusMaximus
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Nope.
"For every hot chick there is some dude that is tired of her sheite".
Certainly fit the bill for me too and seeing other guys with hb's doesn't affect me. Why should it?
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lol
