"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you shave before or after showering??

the_govner

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HELP!!

I need a new shaving process, it's forever been shaving every 3 days, after shower, shick 4 blades.

Now i'm getting this BS skin irritation and I went to a skin doctor and she told me not to follow GQ and shave before showering.

What's your shaving process? How often do you shave? What kind of blade do you use?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jahidi

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I shave after showering because your face is damp with hot water which helps. If for whatever reason you're shaving but not showering at least wet your face with a cloth first. This is because the hot water opens the pores on your face and softens your beard.

BTW I use the same razor/blade as you. I shave about every other day.
 

j0n024

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I actually feel lazy now..haha. I shave before I shower and then just wash off all the cream when I take a shower, I also throw on some face wash for acne so I wont break out before I take a bath as well.
 

WhitePimp

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I actually started shaving IN the shower...I bring a little mirror in there with me but I've been able to shave pretty accurately without it after doing it so long. I cant stand doing it before or after anymore...after my face feels dirty, and before it's way too fvcking painful
 

AKA FLEX

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I'm with WhitePimp. Except the only thing I shave with a razor is my face (I trim my beard with a Remington).

I have a mirror on one side of my shower, but I'm so used to it by now that mainly I just go by feel. I use Dove soap as my lather. I can get the job done in about a minute and a half. Sure beats paying $12 for a barber every few weeks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ingeniarius

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Check out traditional wet shaving with a brush and lather, and also with a DE razor. It's not that hard to do and also feels much better than anything you have ever felt before while shaving. Also kinowear.com had an article about that, but it got stuck in the basics.

I switched to wet shaving a year ago and have not regretted it.

www.badgerandblade.com
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Do it before you take a shower.

1. drench your face with war/hot water.
2. put the shaving cream on and start shaving.
3. after your done drench your face in cold water. don't dry your face off right away. let the cold water soak into your skin and kind of dry off on its own.
4. take a shower.
 

snowdog

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First make your face wet with hot water till the hairs get a little softer. Then apply shaving cream. Let it sink in for 5 minutes or so. I usually take a sh*t in between. Then shave, shower and apply good after-shave balsam. That last thing is important.

Also, you don't need 4 blades. Really, that's just marketing BS especially considering the fact that you don't even have a heavy beard (you only need to shave once in 3 days). I use the Gilette one with 2 blades and I wouldn't want anything else. Plus the blades are a whole lot cheaper then the new ones. I just go up against the stroke ONCE, then clean my face and re-apply shaving cream. And then I go up against the stroke one more time. It gives me a 100% clean shave and I don't rip my face open.
 
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