"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Do you Sense Treachery?

Joined
Sep 8, 2006
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
My brethren here within this post:

There is this woman that comes into the gas station and gets her coffee almost every morning, and we at times manage to come into the same gas station at the same time before work. She is an attractive someone so finally I had the heart to say something to her. She speaks back and thus begins our time speaking to each other. One day I finally had the heart to ask her out to go to a play that I had to attend to for class. She says “sure, yeah just give me a call to let me know”. She gives me her number and of course I play cool as if it’s nothing. I see her again the day before the play and ask her if she is still down for the cause and she replies that she is and to give her a call the next day to give her all the detail information. Now what’s running through my mind is keep it cool and simple, don’t start getting all excited and bent out of shape or else she will see that I’m some desperate fool. The next day approaches and I give her a call around mid-day to arrange details for that night. She picks up the phone and says “Hello” as if she is afraid, but as always the Suave Gentlemen, I say hello and let her know my name. She replies “Oh Hi”. I noticed the tone in her voice change and so I figured “oh lord she is about to back out on me”. Sure enough she did, she claimed that she had fallen and sprained her leg, knee or something of that nature, but of course I thought she was straight lying with her excuses. Fortunately I had already thought of a PLAN B just in case this girl wanted to back out on me. So I told her not to worry and she claimed she was at the hospital getting looked at. “No Problem” I said and thus end the phone conversation. I called into existence PLAN B with this other woman and she joins me and we go see the play.

Monday comes and the original girl whom was supposed to attend with me comes out with a leg cast. “OH DAMN SHE WAS ACTUALLY TELLING THE TRUTH”. She asked me all about the play and what happened and how she so wanted to go. I actually thought in my mind that this cast that she had on was a ruse to attempt to fool me she would have me think that she was telling the truth. Today she comes out of the car still with that cast on her leg which actually convinced me she was telling the truth all along. She told me to call this weekend her for she wanted to get out of the house. Sounds like another set up to me, however any comments or advice would be grateful.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

John_Galt

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2006
Messages
341
Reaction score
0
Yeah, she just keeps the cast on to fool you. She really hates you, and would rather put on a cast all the time, than telll you to f*ck off.
 

PectoralisMajor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2007
Messages
328
Reaction score
4
Whats the problem here?

No girl would go to the trouble of having a 'fake' cast. If you think they would then your a fool, because its far easier for a woman to tell you to f*ck off in nice terms, or to ignore you altogether.

She is genuine when she says she wants to hang out, so if you like her still, take her out and go easy on her because she sounds OK.

It amazes me your asking about this........but well done for having backup plan B. That was nice work.

Let us know how you get on with this girl.
 
Joined
Sep 8, 2006
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Cont.

No doubt it does sound foolish whether this is genuine or not. I guess I've grown to suspicious of the opposite genders actions. I've taken on the Philsophy that regardless of how silly or foolish it may seem that it should not be over looked.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

spider_007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2005
Messages
3,072
Reaction score
16
Location
ontario
ha ha ha, next time think before you post.

I'v never heard something so rediculis in my life.

oh God!!!!!:rolleyes:

There are so many excuses she could have came up with that didn't involve sitting still for an hour trying to up a cast on the foot, and than walking with it for 2 days.......just to break a date with you. And still put her self in the same position as to run into you again in the same place....she could have showed up 15 min early, or 15min later then you to awoid you, or better yat, get her coffie somewhere else.....

If you thought that anybody would actually do this, you NEED psyciatric help.
or your one of our idiot trolls that makes sh!t up for this forum
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Do guys typically worry about such things, I mean seriously?
 

Hyde

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
82
Reaction score
0
:crackup: Not many post's are so hilariously ridiculous that I feel the need to reply with the "crackup" smiley, but this one is.

Dude, there's no trickery! What-so-ever. "Sounds like another set up to me", it can't be another set-up considering there wasn't a set-up in the first place!

*Elbows spider_007* Is this guy serious?
 

sav

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2006
Messages
399
Reaction score
3
dont listen to these guys, the cast MUST be a fake...

here's what you do...

next time you see her, punch the cast as hard as you can a couple times.. and see by her reaction if its real or not.. ITS THE ONLY WAY TO DETERMINE WHETHER SHE'S ****ING WITH YOU!!!

but ona serious note.. i cant believe people are this clueless
 

John_Galt

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2006
Messages
341
Reaction score
0
sav said:
dont listen to these guys, the cast MUST be a fake...

here's what you do...

next time you see her, punch the cast as hard as you can a couple times.. and see by her reaction if its real or not.. ITS THE ONLY WAY TO DETERMINE WHETHER SHE'S ****ING WITH YOU!!!

but ona serious note.. i cant believe people are this clueless
That's stupid. I suggest urinating all over her leg, the next time you see her, and laugh like a 5 year old. The truth will come out than.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Krak

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2006
Messages
86
Reaction score
0
Location
San Diego, CA
Troll...
 

John_Galt

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2006
Messages
341
Reaction score
0

Krak

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2006
Messages
86
Reaction score
0
Location
San Diego, CA
John_Galt said:
I was calling the original poster a troll, not you, numb nuts.
 

John_Galt

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2006
Messages
341
Reaction score
0
Krak said:
I was calling the original poster a troll, not you, numb nuts.
Fag...
 
Joined
Sep 8, 2006
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Cont.

lol .. Alright .. Alright .. no need for the harshness ... I guess where I am .. (Baltlimore City) you would be amazed of the foolishnes these carpet munchers would play just beat a man .. that's the only reason why I asked .. and yes .. " I am for real" .. it's all peace .. be easy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top