Do you regret your first time?

[Analytic]

Ever since I moved out and got a job in a nightclub, for the first time it's actually possible for me to loose it now. Problem is, these are club girls and ONS is the norm which make sex suck the first time. Being 26, turning 27 soon, I want to loose the V-card but I also don't want to regret it.

I have a date with this girl on Friday whom I met in the club, there is a good chance that I will loose it to her on the first date (we got freaky in the club) but I think she is a HB5.5.

Is sex the first time overrated and should I continue to wait for a better girl or develop a relationship with this girl first? I really prefer to care about the girl or at least a HB8 to do it with.

 

[lookyoung]

For a guy who gives a fvck. Your 26 and still a virgin I would say take what you can get. Beggars can't be choosers. Just make sure you use a condomn.

 

[iqqi]

Just make sure you use a condomn.

YUP.

But I'm really drunk right now.

MMMkay, going to sleep now.m

 

[ketostix]

YUP.

But I'm really drunk right now.

MMMkay, going to sleep now.m

What no drunk hook up stories tonight? Thank god.

 

[Eddie417]

Ever since I moved out and got a job in a nightclub, for the first time it's actually possible for me to loose it now. Problem is, these are club girls and ONS is the norm which make sex suck the first time. Being 26, turning 27 soon, I want to loose the V-card but I also don't want to regret it.

I have a date with this girl on Friday whom I met in the club, there is a good chance that I will loose it to her on the first date (we got freaky in the club) but I think she is a HB5.5.

Is sex the first time overrated and should I continue to wait for a better girl or develop a relationship with this girl first? I really prefer to care about the girl or at least a HB8 to do it with.

Just pull the tooth.

 

[Señor Fingers]

You never forget your first time, so make sure its not with a fat hairy UG.

Other than that its all green lights dude. You are long overdue for some nookie!

 

[Colossus]

Ever since I moved out and got a job in a nightclub, for the first time it's actually possible for me to loose it now. Problem is, these are club girls and ONS is the norm which make sex suck the first time. Being 26, turning 27 soon, I want to loose the V-card but I also don't want to regret it.

I have a date with this girl on Friday whom I met in the club, there is a good chance that I will loose it to her on the first date (we got freaky in the club) but I think she is a HB5.5.

Is sex the first time overrated and should I continue to wait for a better girl or develop a relationship with this girl first? I really prefer to care about the girl or at least a HB8 to do it with.

ANALYTIC---

Im going to give you some advice that I suggest you take. Others here will sh!t on it and tell you otherwise, but it's your choice.

You have waited this long to lose your V-card, for whatever reason. Dont let it stress you out.

Sex the first time is a bit anticlimactic. At least it was for me and most of the guys i know. That being said, DO NOT fvck some girl just for the sake of losing your virginity. There is a good chance you will regret it.

That doesnt mean you have to wait for that "special" someone, but at least do it with a girl who cares about you. They are going to figure out youre a virgin anyway. It may as well be someone who likes you and doesnt make a joke out of your first time.

If you just bang some club skank you cant take it back.

 

[MacAvoy]

That being said, DO NOT fvck some girl just for the sake of losing your virginity. There is a good chance you will regret it. If you just bang some club skank you cant take it back.

I don't think I lost my vcard until I was 18. I don't even know her name. I did it for the just for the sake of losing my virginity. My buddy brought a lady friend to my house, she brought a friend with her, they went in my bedroom, so me & the other girl started making out & badda bing badda boom, I lost my vcard.

It was anti-climatic, nothing special. But you know what, I don't regret it, it was the best thing that happened to me. Before that I had girls tryin to be my g/f and I didn't know how to handle it. Within a year I was banging a stripper and was dating a college girl.

Just get it over with, we are NOT women, we don't need it do be with that special someone. Trust me, it don't matter if its some club girl or whoever, you'll thank yourself in a year when your getting it regularly.

Have fun man, thats the most important thing, don't stress out over nothing, just enjoy life.

 

[MikeYikes122]

My first time was actually only like five years ago. It surprisingly lasted a while and it was kind of enjoyable. I didn't go into it expecting a one-hump-pump kind of deal, and I don't recommend you do either.

I think you should just chill, lose it and try not to think about the experience too much. If you build it up in your head, you'll either be extremely letdown or you'll have an awkward Steve Carrell, 40-Year-Old Virgin-type experience.

If you run around looking for that "special someone", you probably won't find her for another 10 or 15 years or even at all. I recommend you just lose it now. I've had sex with probably 15 different girls, and in hindsight none of them fit that description of a "special someone".

 

[MikeYikes122]

What no drunk hook up stories tonight? Thank god.

Hopefully she didn't get cawkblocked by one of her friends again. That might create another 20-page thread of complete madness.

 

[joekerr31]

sex is meant to be fun. dont turn it into some big f*cking deal.

the first time you have sex is no different than the 100th time. sex is sex.

there is good sex and bad sex. usually whether its good or not will be dependent on how into the woman you are and how into you she is.

anyway, if you are attracted to a woman bang her.

if you aren't attracted to her then its probably not going to be that much fun.

 

[frivolousz21]

Ever since I moved out and got a job in a nightclub, for the first time it's actually possible for me to loose it now. Problem is, these are club girls and ONS is the norm which make sex suck the first time. Being 26, turning 27 soon, I want to loose the V-card but I also don't want to regret it.

I have a date with this girl on Friday whom I met in the club, there is a good chance that I will loose it to her on the first date (we got freaky in the club) but I think she is a HB5.5.

Is sex the first time overrated and should I continue to wait for a better girl or develop a relationship with this girl first? I really prefer to care about the girl or at least a HB8 to do it with.

I was 17 when i lost my V card.
and I have had sex with 25+ women atleast 1000 times since.

and it has been 3 months since I have had sex and I am about to reach my breaking point where I have to get laid.


so no...I wish I could go back to Highschool and sleep with every hot teenager at the time I could.

only if I had a Dj bible then

 

[penkitten]

how often in life do you actually have time to sit down and remember this and remember that over and over and replay it in your head and regret it and mourn over it?
when you are ready to give yourself to someone, you do and then its done and over.
you can never take it back, so why dwell on it?
experience life, learn about how you are, turn the negatives into positives and move forth with your life.

 

[drmeathead]

i think you should marry her before you sleep with her and only after you ask her dad at a formal sit down in the parlor only after you have courted (not dated she is a good girl dammit) for a substantial length of time that both your parents and hers gave a blessing to after you told your intentions to her father after she smiled at you in town one sunday afternoon.


SERIOUSLY DUDE just go out and have fun. go with the flow and if the flow includes her trying put your pole in her hole so be it. dont stress. have a good time and enjoy being yourself. if you do that you will find that some girl will want to validate herself by touching you where you pee. im not trying to be asinine here just trying to get you to relax.

 

[joekerr31]

SERIOUSLY DUDE just go out and have fun. go with the flow and if the flow includes her trying put your pole in her hole so be it.

one of the great things about getting older is you come to see just how silly people behave over such a simple activity.

i mean, its 15-60 minutes of her bouncing on your d*ck and guys act like its the pinnacle of existence.

 

[drmeathead]

This is a sticking point for me as a virgin, I feel that if I have sex it would be hypocritical for me to expect a chaste girl, or a reasonably chaste one, to be with me. If you go look on Yahoo answers for example, you will see a lot of women don't like the idea that you have been ****ing some other girl just for fun.

The big upside is that I will perform better for future partners and with the onus on the man to perform it makes having sex good for experience.

Finally, I don't think having sex for experience is wrong its just a personal preference of mine to want a chaste girl, so being that is one of my values I am on the fence as to whether I should try to gain sexual experience or risk becoming a 40-year old virgin.

why the hell would tell any woman about your sexual past. you arent 16. it is to be expected without saying that you arent fresh out of the box so to speak. the only things a woman needs to know about your past is whether you had/have an STD or a kid. Other than that dont ask dont tell.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I was 23 when I lost my virginity and I'm glad that I waited. I was a wonderful experience for me and everything went perfectly. As soon as I got on it I was a natural. She was really surprised and so was I. Yeah she knew I was a virgin before hand and she was really understanding. Before sex she even asked me if I still wanted to go through with it because we were getting really hot and heavy. I liked her a lot and we had great chemistry. I thought I would regret it a few months after but in the end I'm glad I lost it to her.


It would be better if you slept with someone who cared about you and vise versa. It's great if you actually like each other beyond sex. :yes:

 

[ThunderMaverick]

one of the great things about getting older is you come to see just how silly people behave over such a simple activity.

i mean, its 15-60 minutes of her bouncing on your d*ck and guys act like its the pinnacle of existence.

Now you KNOW there's more to it just than that. Let's not kid ourselves.

 

[Adam007]

27 !!!!!!!!!!! and not done yet. Ooops bro, where have you been....? But never late..... go for this now... best wishes...

 

[Mr.Positive]

Analytic, my first time, I was 21 and with a gal I was in love with...and I'll tell you, it was, uneventful. It wasn't the mind-blowing experience I was building up in my mind. It was nice, but that's it. Since I was serious with this gal, the sex got better...way better over time.

So, my recommendation is this. Don't over think things, let them happen. If you are with a gal, and ready to go, you'll know it.

Also, I wouldn't tell her you are a virgin. Just let things happen naturally, and maybe, if you are serious about her later on, after the fact, tell her.

The reason I say this, is that a lot of societal pressure is placed on HER, not you, about the whole 'first time' thing. Do you remember your first time bowling? My point is this, you will remember your first time, but it won't matter that much.

It will matter, however, to the woman you are with, at that time, because it will catch her off-guard and cause a huge emotional, question-herself if she's worth it, response. That's an episode you don't want.

Just don't mention it, BUT, it's your decision to make at that time, with the right woman. Remember, you make that decision, not her.

Also, remember, it's really not that big of a deal. Don't build it up too much in your mind. Pick a gal, if you dig her, and the timing's right...go for it.