UltimateScoundrel
Master Don Juan
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Confidence is important in attracting women. Not so much that it is in and of itself attractive, but that a confident man is not afraid to socialize with women.
Dating is a numbers game. It's been said before and I'll say it again because it's true. The more women you ask on dates, the more dates you will get. Period. If you want to be confident, you have to become sure of yourself.
Confidence comes through practice.
To become sure of yourself, to believe that you can talk to this girl, ask her on a date, hook up with her, you have to actually do those things. Every day you have to talk to a new girl. Flirt with your waitress, or your friend, or that hot next door neighbor.
Everytime you push yourself to do something new, it gets easier next time.
We all felt anxiety the first time we asked a girl on a date. I've probably asked hundreds of girls on dates by now. More often than not I get shot down. But do I worry about it, or take it personally? No. I just shrug it off and move on to the next girl
If you're scared and nervous when you flirt with girls, or ask them out on dates, or try to kiss them, or whatever, that's okay, it's normal. You will get used to it. If you had asked me a few years ago if I could just walk up to a girl and ask for her phone number, I would have said, "Never." Yet today, here I am.
The point I am trying to make is this, push yourself, don't be afraid, and one day you will look back at how you used to be, compare it to what you are, and be proud.
Dating is a numbers game. It's been said before and I'll say it again because it's true. The more women you ask on dates, the more dates you will get. Period. If you want to be confident, you have to become sure of yourself.
Confidence comes through practice.
To become sure of yourself, to believe that you can talk to this girl, ask her on a date, hook up with her, you have to actually do those things. Every day you have to talk to a new girl. Flirt with your waitress, or your friend, or that hot next door neighbor.
Everytime you push yourself to do something new, it gets easier next time.
We all felt anxiety the first time we asked a girl on a date. I've probably asked hundreds of girls on dates by now. More often than not I get shot down. But do I worry about it, or take it personally? No. I just shrug it off and move on to the next girl
If you're scared and nervous when you flirt with girls, or ask them out on dates, or try to kiss them, or whatever, that's okay, it's normal. You will get used to it. If you had asked me a few years ago if I could just walk up to a girl and ask for her phone number, I would have said, "Never." Yet today, here I am.
The point I am trying to make is this, push yourself, don't be afraid, and one day you will look back at how you used to be, compare it to what you are, and be proud.