A DJ must always be fluid with his game. It should always be adapted to the individual. Women are mostly the same but not all like to be approached the same way. It takes practice and experience but you have to learn to read women. I got a number last weekend from a female (28 assistant principal at a high school). From her appearance and description, I thought she would be mannerable respectful and ladylike. In actuality, she is loud aggressive and somewhat obnoxious. At first, I tried my assertive but gentlemanly game but got no where but ignored, so I had to get rowdy with her, talk a lot of sh!t, and neg hit her constantly. Her attitude changed when I showed her my "other side."
For some reason, I think the trashy chicks who are used to gettting no respect are exactly the opposite. I tend to act like a sincere, serious minded, honest, straight forward gentleman. For instance, my formula for getting strippers is to go total AFC on them. As Im getting a lap dance, I look em straight in the eye and say goofy things like wow you are so beautiful, I have a crush on you. I make them feel respected while everyone else is acting rowdy.
A few weeks ago, I was at a cookout and there was this really hot/sexy chick. Everyone was sweating her. I couldn't talk to her because all the other guys were trying to pick her up the whole afternoon. I played it the opposite way, I didnt say anything to her. I ignored her. I found the next most attractive girl and started talking to her and her friends. While she saw me talking/laughing and having a great time with that group, she sat next to me and listened in on the convo. Eventually, she worked herself into the convo. I ignored her for a good while but gradually I started responding to her. It took a lot of patience and discipline, but I waited her out. At the end of the night, I still didnt ask her for a number (I knew could get it from our mutual friend). She actually asked our mutual friend about me first..
My point, adapt the game to the woman. Each woman and situation will be different. Hell, even the time and place will force you to change the game. If a woman gets a little drunk she will usually become easier and more fun to talk to. You always have to be thinking, and reading her for clues. The trick is to learn what she wants to hear and talk about that sh!t till she thinks you're the greatest guy on earth.
