"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you play "games" with girls?

Solomon

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Do you play "games' with girls?
You know like the 5 question game, or the 1 thru 10?
what games do you play? do they work?
I've been theorizing this out, in terms of escalation and DHVing. I find that it works especially well in a two set, however it can backfire as well, because then it looks like you are trying to impress the chicks and they look at you as their "entertainer" from the night, I don't know about magic tricks though I'm cool on that :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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aix237

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I do the five questions game whebn im in comfort.u wanna dhv? Then u gottaq play real games like mind games only to get good loking girls that are highly socialized
 

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Well I've played doctor with a few women. Except there were no tools, and it was always the same diagnosis: needikitis

The only games I recommend are strip card games.
 
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magickarl

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I don't play games in the traditional sense.

I play "games" like:

- Revoking her talking privileges when she says something silly
- Pretending I can't hear her if she ignores her revocation
- Copy-Catting her
- Doing really exaggerated impressions of her.
- I'll hide things of hers like clothes or car keys and give her clues to find them

It's actually closer to teasing the woman, but they really do love it.
 

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Outdoor strip beer pong...almost got a sexual offender charge that night. Bad night...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrMaN

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i do the teasing as well, definitely the really exaggerated impressions of her and when i give her gifts i dont always do this just sometimes, ill give her a note that leads her to another note that might be in my pocket, ill usually have a note in every pocket (this gives her a chance to grope you all the while being excited for the surprise) then the last note will tell her where the present is, you gotta come up with clever and flirty things to put in the notes as well, it adds to the excitement which usually makes her want to be all over me after this...i love it
 
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