"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you play "games" with girls?

Solomon

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Do you play "games' with girls?
You know like the 5 question game, or the 1 thru 10?
what games do you play? do they work?
I've been theorizing this out, in terms of escalation and DHVing. I find that it works especially well in a two set, however it can backfire as well, because then it looks like you are trying to impress the chicks and they look at you as their "entertainer" from the night, I don't know about magic tricks though I'm cool on that :crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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aix237

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I do the five questions game whebn im in comfort.u wanna dhv? Then u gottaq play real games like mind games only to get good loking girls that are highly socialized
 

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Well I've played doctor with a few women. Except there were no tools, and it was always the same diagnosis: needikitis

The only games I recommend are strip card games.
 
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magickarl

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I don't play games in the traditional sense.

I play "games" like:

- Revoking her talking privileges when she says something silly
- Pretending I can't hear her if she ignores her revocation
- Copy-Catting her
- Doing really exaggerated impressions of her.
- I'll hide things of hers like clothes or car keys and give her clues to find them

It's actually closer to teasing the woman, but they really do love it.
 

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Outdoor strip beer pong...almost got a sexual offender charge that night. Bad night...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i do the teasing as well, definitely the really exaggerated impressions of her and when i give her gifts i dont always do this just sometimes, ill give her a note that leads her to another note that might be in my pocket, ill usually have a note in every pocket (this gives her a chance to grope you all the while being excited for the surprise) then the last note will tell her where the present is, you gotta come up with clever and flirty things to put in the notes as well, it adds to the excitement which usually makes her want to be all over me after this...i love it
 
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