Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"Do you play any sports?"

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Girls always seem to ask me if I play sports.

I used to be a "computer guy" and never really had any hobbies besides playing piano. I'm pretty bad in every sports, so what should I answer when a girl asks me that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you workout you can say this:

'Nah, i visit the gym instead. Saves time and this way all my muscles get exercised.'

But dude, some sort of physical exercise / sport is a must. So if you don't play a sport you should be workin out (if you're old enough)
 

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i get the same thing, I'm 6' 4" so everyone asks me if I play basketball. But I'm not on the team and I usually tell them the backround story. When I was just a freshman I was only 5' 7". It can create interest, by means of disbelief. People don't think that just 3 years ago, I could've possibly been 9" shorter than I am right now. Then I bust out a transition, the classic "enough about me, what sports do you play?"

So just make up something like "I used to wrestle, but I messed up my shoulder and can't do it anymore." This creates interest because the girls might see it as very masculine that you were injured doing something macho like wrestling.
 

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Originally posted by immrtlwun
So just make up something like "I used to wrestle, but I messed up my shoulder and can't do it anymore." This creates interest because the girls might see it as very masculine that you were injured doing something macho like wrestling.
Since when is rolling around with other guys macho?
 

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So many noobs...its crazy.:crazy:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oakraiderz2

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If youre gonna make something up...be creative, none of that uhh...basketball/ football/ or whatever. Professional mini golfer, go fish, or that you wrestle lions, tigers and bears. Im sure you get the idea.
 

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Solution: Pick up a sport.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by True Wolf
Solution: Pick up a sport.
Now who wants to tell me why this doesnt work??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Now who wants to tell me why this doesnt work??
I do! :wave:

Because you don't comform to what a girl wants... you do what makes you happy!

Plus, you can lie and say you lift weights or run every day. HOw would they find out? Who even cares?

I tell people I box... I don't... hahah.
 
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Originally posted by Soniq_red
Man, wrestling is fun/
Oh wrestling is tough. 2 men, one MAN. I used to play football too. A 6 minute wrestling match takes more from your body than an entire game. Its one of the most physically and mentally demanding sports out there.

And for the original poster, I am a computer guy. But that doesnt effect my ability to pick up women. Just find a couple more hobbies. Find something a guy friend does, but you dont, and try it out.

Oh, and if a girl is shallow enough to judge you by whether you play sports or not, she isnt worth the time.
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
I do! :wave:

Because you don't comform to what a girl wants... you do what makes you happy!

Plus, you can lie and say you lift weights or run every day. HOw would they find out? Who even cares?

I tell people I box... I don't... hahah.
Yaaaay!!!:rockon: Thank you for saving my energy, you are my saviour.
 
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