"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do You Offer To Buy Her A Drink?

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Maximus Rex

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We all know the proper responses to the question of "will you buy me a drink?" But will it set a bad precedent to offer a chick a drink? For example, you've just finsihed your Scotch and your down for another one. Should you ask the young lady if she wants a drink?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I read this somewhere

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" what's in it for me * wink * "

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" I'll will think about it if you on your best behavior "

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" Sure! after you buy me one first :p "


hehe might not work. Cos I seem to fall into buying drink trap once a while. When I'm buying my buddy a drink in the bar area. other buddy sometime just walk up to us. :-(
 

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Buy her the drink!! Yep, do it!

Because that will make her like you.
Because that will make her sleep with you.

(THATS HUMOR)

You dont need to buy a woman a drink, if you do, you are just wasting your money and your time. Be happy within yourself, have a great time, leave your wallet and your poems, and your romance and your heart out of this right now, and just have a great time. That is the only requirement.
 

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Personally? I see no reason to buy a woman a drink.

In fact, you can use the situation to accuse her of picking up on you which is usually F'ing hilarious. Then, the whole idea of getting a drink goes out the window because now the situation is entertaining.

I'll be damned if I spend my hard earned money on some stranger of a girl I just me at a bar. hah, yeah right.

You might as well say "Ok, I'll buy you a drink, and while I'm giving away my money I have something else for you that I don't need anymore...my balls"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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