"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you live your dreams or your parents' dreams?

Is your career and life influenced by the pressures of your parents?

  • Yes, a lot. I'd hate to admit it, but I go along with what they expect of me

    Votes: 3 14.3%
  • Yep, they do influence me more than I want

    Votes: 3 14.3%
  • No. They try to influence me but I don't really listen to them.

    Votes: 8 38.1%
  • No!! Because I don't care at all about their opinions

    Votes: 1 4.8%
  • Not Applicable because parents don't put expectations and pressures on me

    Votes: 6 28.6%

  • Total voters
    21

I_Only_Live_Once

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Talking to different people, I've found that many people are like myself where my parents have heavy expectations on what I should do with my life and career. Just wondering how everybody else's life is like and what your suggestions are.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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fallen_eiku

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no one in my family ever told where to go in life.
just put my heart and soul in to it
 

Climax

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Firstly, this should be in the "AE" forum.

Secondly, in response to the poll, My parents have always been behind me in all my decisions. They will give their opinion and give me their point of view etc, and then leave the final decision to me. If they don’t like MY decision, then its just too bad... I'm living MY life... not theirs;)


Laterz...
 

Tomatoes

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My parents are prob one of the most laid back parents in the world. I never put expectations on me. They let me do what i went when i want all the time. They give me advice and are always honest with me on thier opinion. However they never force it. I am always honest with my parents. I tell them stuff that other people wouldnt dare tell there parents. Eg. I told my mum that I started smoking weed. She didnt catch me or me keeping a secert. I just told em.....Same with everything.


Pushy parents really do my head in...Esp when they are the parents of the girl im gaming :mad:
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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My parents are not laid back like that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ethnomethodologist

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You missed the yes. I listen to my parents, they give good advice thread...

So your parents tell you you need to do something, and you scream...

AAAAH stop ruining my life!!!!
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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?!
lol
 
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