"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No, don't worry this isn't going to be a thread advocating going to bat for the other team, lol.

What I mean is that we all (myself included) put a lot of time, thought and effort into women because we want to sleep with them. However if it wasn't for that I'm not sure if I'd even bother with girls at all. Compared to my male friends I have to say that the women I know are generally much less funny, less interesting, incapable of self deprecation, more prone to ramble on pointlessly, more superficial, more prone to melodrama etc, etc.

So, apart from the qualities that are related to our desire to want to have sex with them what do you like about girls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Now, that's dangerous thinking Timmy.



You will be criticized if you state this opinion publicly, but IMO you are correct. A smart woman can provide some insight, but overall I would rather share the company of men then women. To find a cool girl who you can be with and not grow bored is the challenge.
 

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I actually like women better than men. I would be totally fine having a girlfriend and several other girls around and me being the only guy.

Heh, I guess that's what life was like for Tuxedo Mask :D
 

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i would rather be in female company than male......

i love girls. If there were no women in this world, i would rather kill myself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I like them in short bursts.

So do they, it seems ;)
 

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I dont like the majority of women.

I'm friends with a few, and start seeing even less. And start a relationship with a lower amount. Other than the sex, I dont generally like them... Find them two faced, generally *****y, and just not that interesting as a whole.
 

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teacha said:
i would rather be in female company than male......

i love girls. If there were no women in this world, i would rather kill myself.

funniest reply yet, considering the signature.

a lot of posters here missing the question.
 

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i would rather be in female company than male......

i love girls. If there were no women in this world, i would rather kill myself.
Sure, but isn't that just because of the sexual frisson, the flirting, etc. What if the girls whose company you enjoy were all really ugly?

I'm trying to find out what it is, sex aside, that we like about girls. Generally I have to say I find them incredibly dull. When I go on a date I don't expect to enjoy the conversation, it's just something to get through until we get to the good part of the evening.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Amazing,

Thanks. Yes I thought I'd made the question clear but predictably have already been accused of asking a 'gay' question :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

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We just want women for sex really.. think if you had a girl around you alot BUT they never flirted with you, never had sex never nothing... all they did was talk and talk and all that girly stuff they do..I don't know about you guys but i have a short fuse when girls start to talk alot, in my mind i'm always like OMG stfu already.. REALLY all i want from girls is pleasure, sometimes they're company is fine, but in the end i would still wanta fck them..
 

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JerryFI08

I agree completely. This only hit me recently because, having come out of a long relationship, I have been dating a lot in the last few months. All I can think when they're talking is please won't you STFU. I have to drink copious amounts of alcohol and endlessly smoke cigarettes just to cope with the tedium of the situation.

Of course some are worse than others. One South American girl I dated could go into monologues that would put Shakespeare to shame (in length not quality). The only thing that got me through it was thinking about ****ing her later on in the evening (she was great in bed). I still don't think it was worth it though.
 

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Amazing said:
Now, that's dangerous thinking Timmy.



You will be criticized if you state this opinion publicly, but IMO you are correct. A smart woman can provide some insight, but overall I would rather share the company of men then women. To find a cool girl who you can be with and not grow bored is the challenge.
I should know:crackup:

I got pounded into the pavement for making a thread similar to this though admittedly more controversial.
 

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I find women easier to talk to. I like the goofy sense of humor they often have. They don't seem to have the constant need to dominate people around them.

For any reason that I'd want a guy friend, a girl could do everything the guy could. Not all girls talk and talk. And I've met some chicks that kicked my ass and every other dude in videogames.

I'm actually struggling with the reason why I'd want guy friends at all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Guys, it doesn't have to be black and white. Most guys put up with BS because they will jump if she says "sex"

but there are cool women out there, I mean some chicks do experience cool things and travel and have hobbies..and everyone can teach you about something, no matter if it's pig raising or laying concrete.

I guess I can say when I am with women, it is harder to just let go and say whatever you want - I do it a lot more than others imo, but there is always that "don't fvck this up because you want to get that pu$$y" in the back of my mind.


So I will joke and tease and be myself but I can take it just that 1-2 steps further with my guy friends because I can say anything - there is no outcome dependency.
 

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Maxtro said:
I find women easier to talk to. I like the goofy sense of humor they often have. They don't seem to have the constant need to dominate people around them.

For any reason that I'd want a guy friend, a girl could do everything the guy could.

I'm actually struggling with the reason why I'd want guy friends at all.

...Watch a movie without someone ASKING QUESTIONS EVERY TWO SECONDS.

... No one asking you stupid questions such as " what you are thinking "

...No one continuously talking and when you stop replying jumping to some other topic and keep on talking..and talking ..and talking

... Realizing there is time to STFU and leave you alone

... Just chilling talking about things you have in common like sports and chasing ass. You can do it with some girls, but never to the extent that you can with a man.
 

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Maxtro,

No offense but have to totally agree with Amazing here.

Amazing, am laughing at the movie thing - I refuse to watch films with girls these days because they'll just talk all through them. They seem incapable of devoting 100% attention, whether it's music, movies, conversations, etc.

Most women just seem to love talking for the sake of it. If you've got nothing to say KEEP YOUR DUMB ****ING MOUTH SHUT!!
 

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Also there was one girl recently who used to ask 'What are you thinking?' every two seconds. It was all I could do not to say 'I'm thinking if you ask me what I'm thinking one more time I'm going to punch you in the mouth'.
 

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I guess I can say when I am with women, it is harder to just let go and say whatever you want - I do it a lot more than others imo, but there is always that "don't fvck this up because you want to get that pu$$y" in the back of my mind.
I know exactly whatcha mean


Also there was one girl recently who used to ask 'What are you thinking?' every two seconds. It was all I could do not to say 'I'm thinking if you ask me what I'm thinking one more time I'm going to punch you in the mouth'.
Lmao
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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