"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you like me? Do you think I am fit? Do you have a girlfriend?

Cockynfunny

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Do you like me? Do you think I am fit? Do you have a girlfriend?

Alright, these are the questions which I was lucky to get, they are good indicators that the girl is interested.

Now here's the problem....

Do you like me? if you say yes, well that is going to mess the whole flirtatious game. I usually say "Well, I suppose you are alright."

It usually works well, you don't come off as the guy who is going to kiss up to her.

Do you have a girlfriend? is also one of those IOIs but you gotta know the right way of answering.

Direct answers are a NO-NO


:crazy: So here is my question guys, how would you reply to a girl that asked you one of those questions:
Do you like me? Do you have a girlfriend?

Thanks a lot. :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jeffthechef

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you can answer however the fck you want...it's how you say it

"do you like me?"
you: I loveeeeee you. (while smiling, and a wink if you want...followed by a hug perhaps or kiss if you're feeling it)

"do you have a girlfriend?"
you: I thought YOU were my girlfriend. (confused smile goes well with this reply)

Just have fun. And i know your problem, you need more experience with girls. YHou've been here for about 10 months...you know direct answers are bad...yet you dont know what to say..More interaction with the ladies will fix this.
 

eaglez1177

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I personally dont have a problem with giving direct answers to the girlfriend question. I just always say no.

As for the do you like me question, never give a direct answer but instead just play around with it like what jeff said. Same goes for the do you think im fit question.
 

Cockynfunny

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thank you very much guys, I will feel more comfortable next time I get one of those questions :)
 

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if she asks " do u like me?" just reply " i think you're cute." and if you're feeling ****y, add " but dont let that sh1t get to your head." i wouldn't really say the last part unless you are usually ****y, because it'll just make you seem a little "fake" imo.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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