"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you like me? Do you think I am fit? Do you have a girlfriend?

Cockynfunny

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Do you like me? Do you think I am fit? Do you have a girlfriend?

Alright, these are the questions which I was lucky to get, they are good indicators that the girl is interested.

Now here's the problem....

Do you like me? if you say yes, well that is going to mess the whole flirtatious game. I usually say "Well, I suppose you are alright."

It usually works well, you don't come off as the guy who is going to kiss up to her.

Do you have a girlfriend? is also one of those IOIs but you gotta know the right way of answering.

Direct answers are a NO-NO


:crazy: So here is my question guys, how would you reply to a girl that asked you one of those questions:
Do you like me? Do you have a girlfriend?

Thanks a lot. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jeffthechef

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you can answer however the fck you want...it's how you say it

"do you like me?"
you: I loveeeeee you. (while smiling, and a wink if you want...followed by a hug perhaps or kiss if you're feeling it)

"do you have a girlfriend?"
you: I thought YOU were my girlfriend. (confused smile goes well with this reply)

Just have fun. And i know your problem, you need more experience with girls. YHou've been here for about 10 months...you know direct answers are bad...yet you dont know what to say..More interaction with the ladies will fix this.
 

eaglez1177

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I personally dont have a problem with giving direct answers to the girlfriend question. I just always say no.

As for the do you like me question, never give a direct answer but instead just play around with it like what jeff said. Same goes for the do you think im fit question.
 

Cockynfunny

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thank you very much guys, I will feel more comfortable next time I get one of those questions :)
 

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if she asks " do u like me?" just reply " i think you're cute." and if you're feeling ****y, add " but dont let that sh1t get to your head." i wouldn't really say the last part unless you are usually ****y, because it'll just make you seem a little "fake" imo.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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