"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you like chicks with tats?

How do you feel about chicks w/ink?

  • I love chicks with tats, it's hot and shows they've got personality.

    Votes: 9 19.6%
  • Eh, take it or leave it.

    Votes: 13 28.3%
  • I'm not a big fan but girls with tats are a rarity these days so I live with it.

    Votes: 8 17.4%
  • Can't stand it. It's skanky and unoriginal, not to mention it gives them a used car feel.

    Votes: 16 34.8%

  • Total voters
    46

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desdinova

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One thing I've been noticing about women who like tattoos is they shop for them like they're shopping for shoes. They flip through a book and say "I like that one" and they fvcking get it.

I don't mind women with small tattoos, but women who feel the need to cover themselves with the things are incredibly unattractive. When I look at a woman, I want to look at her sexy body. I get distracted from that sexy body if she has a goddam ugly tattoo. I HATE women with tattoos on their lower backs.

My woman wanted to get a fvcking lower back tattoo. I flat out told her that I would find her less attractive if she got it. Needless to say, she never got it.
 

Jaxon

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Desdinova said:
I don't mind women with small tattoos, but women who feel the need to cover themselves with the things are incredibly unattractive. When I look at a woman, I want to look at her sexy body. I get distracted from that sexy body if she has a goddam ugly tattoo. I HATE women with tattoos on their lower backs.

My woman wanted to get a fvcking lower back tattoo. I flat out told her that I would find her less attractive if she got it. Needless to say, she never got it.
Couldn't agree more, and good work on telling your woman how you felt about her getting one, I'll be doing the same thing if it ever becomes an issue.
 
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