"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you know the reason?

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Is there information I can read anywhere about people's reasoning?

People place so much time reasoning their actions. They make schedules of their lives. They write books. They talk to friends. THey ask questions. This is all reasoning, reasoned actions.

I am an "efficient planning" wh0re. I am caught up in doing my own thing, but efficiently planning on "adding" new styles into my life. I never plan to do routines, because that would require me to switch into a "from the ground up" planning technique instead of a "no opportunity wasted" plan. So everything I spend my time reasoning about revolve around efficiency. When I want to "be the man" the only time I feel the NEED to express my feelings is when people are wasting my time. I have a very hot streak for people who are a hindrance to any plans I have.

My biggest problem is that the easiest plan in the world for me is "winging it". I will expressly allow myself to be a "sheep" if I have nothing to literally "do" with my time. I will allow other people to lead me, because I did not make the initial plans. If I can have fun a long the way, than I am content. As has been said, being content is harmful, because as time passes we are all dying slowly.

I have never told this to anybody, but if they spent enough time with me they could make the inference. Well, the ONLY time they could make the inference is when they are WASTING my time, which sadly, does not come around very often. SO people confuse my reasoning, they pick red herrings, and act on them. Since I did not plan on people judging me prematurely, I am unaware of any problems arising. I become oblivious to any social interactions, I focus on myself, I pull my locus of attention tightly around my body. I get "into the game". "Why did they think that" becomes my mindset, I use my tactics and methods to figure out the reason somebody would judge me in such a way.

That is only one of several streams of conciousness that I have at my disposal. As do all of us. This is as of yet, an uncontrollable urge inside of my mind. It is manifested by me not pursuing a goal. The reason that I "stop to reason" is because I had "no good reason".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kumar

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a) Human Nature: Individuals are naturally free and sovereign, whether they realize it or not. Every individual is free and sovereign because he/she and only he/she controls the life-energy that animates his/her brain and body. This individual control of life-energy constitutes choice or free will. The most important factor that distinguishes humans from other life forms is our ability to reason or think. Sources: Rose Wilder Lane (The Discovery of Freedom); Harry Browne (How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World); Ronald E. Merril (The Ideas of Ayn Rand).
http://www.buildfreedom.com/tl/tl11.shtml

Petty deep stuff there, I'm currently reading Frederick Mann's work.

Give it a look see. I think there is lots of insight there.

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