"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you keep HBs around as challenges?

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Secondtimeround

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I have never been one to next a girl as I believe in 'when a door closes, another opens'. As such have built quite an extended network of HBs of which they provide me with VIP access to clubs, courses or generally call up if my plates are busy (the advantages of having females as friends).

Now on a side note, for HBs such as this one that when asked out could only reply to me with 'depends on the type', how would one go about things? She is VERY receptive and I can sense a hit of jealousy as I predominantly flirt with other woman while she is within the vicinity. Definately a long term type so why I don't mind taking a punt; after all, all this self improvement, isn't it for us to CHOOSE whom we want and not be the one left with whats left?

So my plans at the moment is to not bring anything up but just keep flirting and let my actions do the work and bring down those defences. I've done it before so I know it is possible although there will be hardwork to be had. ***Yet I guess my biggest weakness as pointed out by TE is escalating.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have never been one to next a girl as I believe in 'when a door closes, another opens'.

Its funny how people rationalize failure with women, so their egos arent bruised^

Now on a side note, for HBs such as this one that when asked out could only reply to me with 'depends on the type', how would one go about things? She is VERY receptive and I can sense a hit of jealousy as I predominantly flirt with other woman

Shes using you for your resources while not giving your sex in return...of course shes going to be receptive. And yes she will be jealous albeit not sexually but p1ssed your attention is going elsewhere.

I don't mind taking a punt

ugh^ well you should.

So my plans at the moment is to not bring anything up but just keep flirting and let my actions do the work

Surprisingly i agree with your own assessment of action needed to be taken. Just keep living life and meet new women. ESCALATE WITH THE NEW ONES, because if your "network" of women is vast like you claim but your in the friend zone with all of them....your not escalating. Just be careful thinking their giving you attention for being a cool alpha male...when really its for your VIP access to clubs....as evidence by "Depends what type".
 
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