"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you Invite Women to your place on the First Date?

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Questions for all you guys who are just trying to get laid without spending much money: Do you invite women to your house from the jump or do you go out on a cheap date to build rapport and then try to get her over your place afterwards?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When I was a DJ I did that most of the time. Then I felt intp AFC land and started inviting them to the movies.
 
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Depends on the situation.

If I can feel that the girl is down for some bedroom action, then yeah I invite them over to "hang out".

I don't force the issue on a first date though. I'd hate to ruin months of good sex with a woman just because I was being too pushy about her coming home with me on Date #1.

So to answer your question, it depends on the situation. Usually you go to a cool local bar, have a few drinks, and see where the night takes you.
 
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I'd say bring her to a bar (If you guys are 21 and if she drinks) just get 2 beers or a hard drink. If you have at least 10 bucks this shouldn't be a problem, then go to your place. Relax, listen to some music watch tv with her do whatever.

Whatever you do though, don't watch a movie that's very intense or serious. If you choose to watch a movie, put on a bad movie so you guys can share laughs and so that you guys can talk throughout the movie without being completely lost in it.
 
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