Do you introduce your plates to your friends?

[Meisterman]

There's this chick on campus who lives near me and we're smoke buddies and have been for the past week. Last night we didn't really have a place to go (other than in my car but we always do that) so I just said fu*k it come over. I have 3 flatmates and they were all there too. Except sometimes 1 or 2 of them can be really fukin annoying, basically draining my energy making me feel depleted just from being around them too long. One of them may be even trying to hit on her. Needless to say I felt out of place and was more quiet than normal, and even she mentioned that too afterwards. I felt like it was a step down and makes me reconsider why I invited her over. Do you think it's good to keep your friends and girls separate and not combine the times hanging out with them? I didn't think it would be a big deal but it was just sorta awkward and uncomfortable to me. Yesterday I felt on top of the world as this chick was hitting me up everyday with basically no effort on my part at all, and now I just feel like my self esteem and confidence took a big blow, and I need to get it back.

** Also, I think we were just planning to smoke in my room with the door shut and that's what she expected too. She took a long time to get ready, saying she had to shower and eat, and came over looking really well dressed and in a short skirt. And all she brought was a small handbag with breath mints in it. I think she had other things in mind and so did I, but there was just too many people around to not socialize with everyone.

 

[buzzin_frog]

If you were planning on fvcking her why are you inviting her to chill with your friends?

Just bring her over and fvck her!!

Your confidence sounds really low if your friends can knock it down that much....what are you going to do when strangers start hitting on women you want to date in front of you?

Work on your inner game to gain some real confidence....then it won't be a problem!!

 

[Meisterman]

If you were planning on fvcking her why are you inviting her to chill with your friends?

Just bring her over and fvck her!!

Your confidence sounds really low if your friends can knock it down that much....what are you going to do when strangers start hitting on women you want to date in front of you?

Work on your inner game to gain some real confidence....then it won't be a problem!!

Because our apartment is fu*king tiny it's 1 floor 4 bedrooms. They're not my friends they're my flat mates who I get along decent with. I was hoping we could get some privacy but it was apparent that wasn't gonna happen with at least 6 other people in the main area literally 3 feet from my door