AgonyUncle
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Im at a bit of a crossroads here.
I have been on a few dates with a single mom, who is an absolute belter. Gorgeous, intelligent and has a life of her own. She runs her own business and is active. Now her interest levels appear to be through the roof. She is doing all the phoning and emailing, and making suggestions for possible dates all the time. She insists on picking up the check half of the time. Shes always girly and touchy feely when on a date. She has very little free time working retail hours, and seems intent on spending what free time she has available with me when I am available.
I just cant get to first base with this chick. Now normally, in my book, if you have not kissed the woman by the 2nd date, her interest level is low. By the third, you in the friend zone and there is no romantic interest at all on their part. She has said outright she cant take home every man she likes because it confuses her kid too much, the poor little bugger thinking every new fellow is his new dad. I get the impression that she was with a nutjob or two in the past, so is a little circumspect. So in one breath she is hinting at friendship only, but in the other she is acting like a woman in full on pursuit.
Has anyone experienced a similar situation? I must admit I do like her quite a bit, and would be prepared to take it slow if she was keen but wary. Sex is catered for with a FB I have on the go, so its look like I have oneitis or anything either.
Suggestions?
I have been on a few dates with a single mom, who is an absolute belter. Gorgeous, intelligent and has a life of her own. She runs her own business and is active. Now her interest levels appear to be through the roof. She is doing all the phoning and emailing, and making suggestions for possible dates all the time. She insists on picking up the check half of the time. Shes always girly and touchy feely when on a date. She has very little free time working retail hours, and seems intent on spending what free time she has available with me when I am available.
I just cant get to first base with this chick. Now normally, in my book, if you have not kissed the woman by the 2nd date, her interest level is low. By the third, you in the friend zone and there is no romantic interest at all on their part. She has said outright she cant take home every man she likes because it confuses her kid too much, the poor little bugger thinking every new fellow is his new dad. I get the impression that she was with a nutjob or two in the past, so is a little circumspect. So in one breath she is hinting at friendship only, but in the other she is acting like a woman in full on pursuit.
Has anyone experienced a similar situation? I must admit I do like her quite a bit, and would be prepared to take it slow if she was keen but wary. Sex is catered for with a FB I have on the go, so its look like I have oneitis or anything either.
Suggestions?
I view it as a huge red-flag. It means that either she wasn't careful sexually, or it means she had a past relationship that despite having a family, didn't work out.