"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SayWhat

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Hi

I have the opportunity to bang this girl, she's not that good looking, perhaps a 5, but has an amazing body and apparently does crazy stuff in bed.

The fact that she's not that good looking kinda puts me off, but I also think it's a way to get me better. Lately I can tell I've been on an upward route in my self-being. But that my confidence is still holding me back. Will banging this girl help me get even better or will it be the contrary? I'm willing to not do it if in the end it will be more beneficial.

Looking for advice from people who were in the same position.

Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Electro67

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What do you care where she falls appearance-wise on some arbitrary scale? Are you attracted to her? Does the thought of having sex with her give you a boner? If yes, then do it! Don't make things more complicated than they have to be.
 

SayWhat

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I'm not attracted to her, but the thought of having sex with her does go often through my mind yes. Her face is just completely not that pretty, a 5 is only at her best, in the morning it would be lower. So yeah I don't know...
 

VladPatton

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Don't do things half-assed for the sake of doing them. If she gets your jambone snappin and a crackin, bang her like a bass drum. If you're not feeling it, it'll show in your mannerisms and actions and you won't be functioning at 100% with real hardcore interest.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Cremasta

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A five is average. Just shag her.
Like you say, being average looking she'll probably try harder.

If you don't, one day when you're likely married and your options are down to just one girl, you'll look back and wish that you had.

If her looks bother you that much, turn out the light, get a bit drunk and kick her out before sun up.
 

Poop1337

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I'd be pretty excited about what I consider a 5. I mean 6, 7 and 8's are better but 5's are your average doable chick in my rubric. You said she has a hot body so she must have a really ugly face to not just be a 6. I'd rate most disney channel star girls in the 6-7 range. Some one like Megan Fox in the first Transformers a 8-9.

Any ways it all boils down to is she bangable. No you shouldn't screw some girl just because you want experience. You need experience screwing girls you want to screw. PM me a picture if you would I'm damn curious what she looks like.
 
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