"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SayWhat

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Hi

I have the opportunity to bang this girl, she's not that good looking, perhaps a 5, but has an amazing body and apparently does crazy stuff in bed.

The fact that she's not that good looking kinda puts me off, but I also think it's a way to get me better. Lately I can tell I've been on an upward route in my self-being. But that my confidence is still holding me back. Will banging this girl help me get even better or will it be the contrary? I'm willing to not do it if in the end it will be more beneficial.

Looking for advice from people who were in the same position.

Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Electro67

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What do you care where she falls appearance-wise on some arbitrary scale? Are you attracted to her? Does the thought of having sex with her give you a boner? If yes, then do it! Don't make things more complicated than they have to be.
 

SayWhat

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I'm not attracted to her, but the thought of having sex with her does go often through my mind yes. Her face is just completely not that pretty, a 5 is only at her best, in the morning it would be lower. So yeah I don't know...
 

VladPatton

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Don't do things half-assed for the sake of doing them. If she gets your jambone snappin and a crackin, bang her like a bass drum. If you're not feeling it, it'll show in your mannerisms and actions and you won't be functioning at 100% with real hardcore interest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cremasta

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A five is average. Just shag her.
Like you say, being average looking she'll probably try harder.

If you don't, one day when you're likely married and your options are down to just one girl, you'll look back and wish that you had.

If her looks bother you that much, turn out the light, get a bit drunk and kick her out before sun up.
 

Poop1337

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I'd be pretty excited about what I consider a 5. I mean 6, 7 and 8's are better but 5's are your average doable chick in my rubric. You said she has a hot body so she must have a really ugly face to not just be a 6. I'd rate most disney channel star girls in the 6-7 range. Some one like Megan Fox in the first Transformers a 8-9.

Any ways it all boils down to is she bangable. No you shouldn't screw some girl just because you want experience. You need experience screwing girls you want to screw. PM me a picture if you would I'm damn curious what she looks like.
 
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