"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you have to smoke.....

BlackDragon

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....to get that dark, gruffy voice? Like Clint Eastwood or other badass in movies. I dont plan on smoking or anything, but I would like to have my voice like that. I read a couple of voice empowerment tips and Im still practicing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you must do lots of yelling like a US MARINE CORPS DRILL INSTRUCTOR to get that "rough" sound in your voice.

when you work out at the gym, practive grunting and growling when your lifting to get that extra repetition.

if you talk softly all the time you will have a "soft" voice like a woman.
 

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you must do lots of yelling like a US MARINE CORPS DRILL INSTRUCTOR to get that "rough" sound in your voice.
Haha, watch Full Metal Jacket :D
 
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