"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you have to be Black or White in order to have a lot of success in the USA?

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I live in Tennessee right now and most of the guys I see who are having success going outside of their own race are Black or White.

White guys sometimes hook up with good looking asian and good looking latin girls. Black guys hook up with White girls, Asian girls, and Latin girls.

Now realizing this, I just noticed that I have never in my life seen a Asian dude with a White girl or a Latino guy go with a girl outside his own race other than maybe a Black girl.

The town I live in in Tennessee isn't that diverse so I was wondering how life is like for a Brown (latino) dude in the bigger cities. Any ideas
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't know the answer to your question, but it brings up one of my own. When I was a young lad growing up, a lot of women were attracted to the image of the swarthy hotblooded Latin lover. It was a stereotype of sorts. I think Desi Arnez (Ricky Ricardo) on "I Love Lucy" was supposed to be an example of this, although of course he was Cuban.

But I don't hear much about the idea of the Latin lover anymore. What happened to it?
 

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zekko said:
I don't know the answer to your question, but it brings up one of my own. When I was a young lad growing up, a lot of women were attracted to the image of the swarthy hotblooded Latin lover. It was a stereotype of sorts. I think Desi Arnez (Ricky Ricardo) on "I Love Lucy" was supposed to be an example of this, although of course he was Cuban.

But I don't hear much about the idea of the Latin lover anymore. What happened to it?
you do have cristiano ronaldo
 

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zekko said:
But I don't hear much about the idea of the Latin lover anymore. What happened to it?
A great number of Latinos moving into the United States, leading women to realize that the "real deal" is nothing like the stereotypical Latin lover?
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Play to your strengths, minimize your weaknesses. I've seen Hispanic guys with white girls and Asian guys with white girls. It's not super commonplace, but it happens. For Latino guys, I recommend finding a salsa club (there's a fairly large promo group in my city), that's a great way to hook up with white girls. Again, that's playing to your strengths.

Your problem seems to be the town you live in (you said it's not diverse, and I'm guessing it's small), not your ethnicity per se. Might consider moving to a larger (maybe even coastal) area.
 

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Latino Brah said:
you do have cristiano ronaldo
Ronaldo is white. The OP is brown.

When women think of a "Latin Lover", they imagine someone who looks Spanish, not Latin American. In other words, a Latin Lover is a white guy of Southern European descent (i.e. the tall, dark and handsome type). Most Latinos living in the U.S. are Mexican, Honduran and Puerto Rican immigrants of mestizo and mulatto descent (certainly dark, but rarely tall or handsome).
 

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I found in Canada muscular cool black men has the effect of blonde women to other sex , women cant help but start sending flirting signals and giggling when they see a black cool guy .
in fact the only time I see women in Toronto sending a strong IOI is when they are send it to black man .
I am not black bty .
 

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so things have gotten worse for Latinos overtime eh

no race other than black and white men do good in america then
 

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O.P. So long as you are anything but IRT you can be successful with women of any race. Good to see you back though!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Naughty Ninja said:
O.P. So long as you are anything but IRT you can be successful with women of any race. Good to see you back though!
what is an IRT?
 

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Polkadot people have the best success with women man. Trust me.
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im a black guy that lives in tennessee and its not much better for us either. The girls that arent trashy here try to be that southern belle type. My advice is to go to nashville or just out of state. Ive been in charlotte for the past week and im seeing black, asians, and hispanics with hot white girls. I thought i was dreaming because I never see that in tn
 

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Thats what I want to know...

O.P knows exactly what I'm talking about since it's him. IRT = Indian Race Troll. Same dude who cannot restrain himself from putting up race threads. If that's what gets the dude off. Good for him.Google Indian Race Troll. Nuff said.

The net attracts all kinds. God bless the dude. lol
 

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Says the priviledged white guy. Usa is the most racist country.
Privileged? Whatever you say.
If you put your effort into anything, you will improve, it's that simple.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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