"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you have to accept that some women are just realistically out of your league?

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I laughed so hard reading the OP. The moment you think a woman is unreachable is the moment you lose, because what you think becomes your reality. If you don't think you can get something you probably won't, you've essentially given up before you've tried. And if you still try you've made your mind up and put her above you, women smell this from miles away.

Got this chick bragging once her ex was a celebrity and claiming to be intelligent because of political position, I found it obnoxious. I pointed out that political engagement isn't a measure of intelligence, she went silent because she knew I was right, lol. I never felt intimidated by it, and could have gotten her if I wanted. Furthermore she told me the first time I met her she had a boyfriend AND she initiated kissing, then tried rationalizing it as long distance. So essentially she was a cheater as well. Although unusually honest, she didn't have her priorities straight and wasn't worth a go. She was pretty though.

I don't think just getting a hot chick is the important thing, rather asking yourself if you really want it considering more than cars and looks is important. That's why looks or material possessions don't intimidate me, because it's not enough to hook me for more than a lay or two.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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