"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you have to accept that some women are just realistically out of your league?

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I laughed so hard reading the OP. The moment you think a woman is unreachable is the moment you lose, because what you think becomes your reality. If you don't think you can get something you probably won't, you've essentially given up before you've tried. And if you still try you've made your mind up and put her above you, women smell this from miles away.

Got this chick bragging once her ex was a celebrity and claiming to be intelligent because of political position, I found it obnoxious. I pointed out that political engagement isn't a measure of intelligence, she went silent because she knew I was right, lol. I never felt intimidated by it, and could have gotten her if I wanted. Furthermore she told me the first time I met her she had a boyfriend AND she initiated kissing, then tried rationalizing it as long distance. So essentially she was a cheater as well. Although unusually honest, she didn't have her priorities straight and wasn't worth a go. She was pretty though.

I don't think just getting a hot chick is the important thing, rather asking yourself if you really want it considering more than cars and looks is important. That's why looks or material possessions don't intimidate me, because it's not enough to hook me for more than a lay or two.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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