"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't even always look for IoIs, I just kind of know when it's a good approach now. I'm sure Shezz does too, he just isn't in the newbie mission mode anymore and approaches the sets he actually has a good feeling about is what I got from his post.

Newbie mission mode is needed. I don't think 6 weeks was long enough for me, mine lasted many months. I mean think about it:

Learning Direct Approaches
Learning Indirect Approaches
naturalizing Openers
naturalizing Stories
calibrating negs
Ok got that, now realizing all those nervous ticks
It's really hard to use much new material and fix all those
nervous ticks at the same time.
All of this stuff takes a lot of time. The more you try to take on
all at once, the longer it's going to take. That's where I went wrong.
I didn't just fix one thing at a time, I tried to do it all at once and I
progressed a lot slower for it. Also, I never did process over outcome.
I actually pulled a girl the first and fourth nights I sarged. That put alot
of pressure on me to keep pulling, further slowing my progress.

Anyway, my goal isn't to be a mPUA. I really only approach now when I am
testing new material or I see a set I really want to do or a newbie asks me
to demonstrate something.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Shezz said:
success isnt defined by the amount of UNINTERESTED women you have in your life ,its the amount of INTERESTED women you have around you - so you can waste time trying to create attraction with someone or you can look for the IOIs from the HBs and get your azz over there!!! Does she look at you? ITS ON!
Shezz, nice reply, I actually agree mostly with what you wrote. But don't you think there's a higher proportion of largely un-attractive females who will give IOIs without even talking to her? I don't think there are many HB8s+ who will just give IOIs. (I'm thinking maybe peacocking could change this)
 
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