"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you have Narcissistic Personality Disorder? Take this short test to find out!

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So here is a test that is supposedly a good indicator of the prevalence of Narcissistic Personality Disorder within people. Not sure if it is psychologically credible. But I believe it was designed by Clinical Psychologists.

My score: 34/40

20/40 is considered narcissistic

18/40 is your average celebrity

12-15/40 the test considers to be the average person

http://psychcentral.com/quizzes/narcissistic.htm

enjoy! and post your scores!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mauser96 said:
I added them and only got 11. Is that how you do it? Add the scores up?

You choose either A or B out of 40 then they will process it for you. Some of the choices are traits that a narcissist would display and some are not.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
23.

But I am so much better than that test, there's no way I can be narcissistic....
hahaha, nice emphasis.

Its funny because someone who readily calls themselves a narcissist is more likely to pride their own narcissistic traits and actually be a narcissist. Its almost reciprocal. If you are a narcissist, you like it, and you become more narcissistic because of it. A vortex of conceit, if you will.
 

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I scored 27,, is that bad? Wait a second, don't answer that question. I probably don't care about your opinion anyway. Unless of course you're reinforcing my belief about how awesome I am, which is just a thinly veiled cover up for my poor poor fragile ego :'|.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I scored a 38.
 

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I got 28 but I don't put too much stock in what the hivemind deems "narcissistic". Anyone with a set of balls and the will to be better than the average plugged in X-factor watching mouth breather is going to be a "narcissist" by default I'm betting.
Completely agree with you. Too often people are scolded for daring to be better than the average, ambitionless underachiever.
 

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Your Total: 27

Between 12 and 15 is average.
Celebrities often score closer to 18.
Narcissists score over 20.
Because you scored 18 or higher, you may want to check out the symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder.
I like it when websites play doctor. Apparently I'm in need of help.

I also like having the authority to move threads wherever I please, places such as the Anything Else forum...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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20/40

Authority: 3.00
Self-Sufficiency: 2.00
Superiority: 3.00
Exhibitionism: 3.00
Exploitativeness: 3.00
Vanity: 3.00
Entitlement: 3.00

Guess I got some narcissistic and psychopathic traits but its not like this test can diagnose you
 

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I got 19 but I was expecting higher. I consider myself a narcissist but a relatively self-aware one. I try to focus on the strengths of narcissism (e.g. confidence, will to power) while minimizing the dysfunctional attributes (e.g. fragile ego, unstable sense of self) that come with it.

dutchmaster mentioned psychopathic traits. Here's a similar test for psychopathy: http://personality-testing.info/tests/LSRP.php
I got 3.6/5 and 3.5/5, which are both higher than about 86% of people.
 

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IBreatheSpears said:
I got 19 but I was expecting higher. I consider myself a narcissist but a relatively self-aware one. I try to focus on the strengths of narcissism (e.g. confidence, will to power) while minimizing the dysfunctional attributes (e.g. fragile ego, unstable sense of self) that come with it.

dutchmaster mentioned psychopathic traits. Here's a similar test for psychopathy: http://personality-testing.info/tests/LSRP.php
I got 3.6/5 and 3.5/5, which are both higher than about 86% of people.
Haha what's up to my brother
3.3/5 3.7/5

You score for primary psychopathy was higher than 80.6% of people who have taken this test.

You score for secondary psychopathy was higher than 90.6% of people who have taken this test.

I guess it makes sense people on this forum have narcissistic/psychopathic traits.. It takes a cold calculating mind to run game.
 

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I got 25.


Authority: 5.00
Self-Sufficiency: 6.00
Superiority: 3.00
Exhibitionism: 4.00
Exploitativeness: 2.00
Vanity: 3.00
Entitlement: 2.00

I answered pretty honestly and this sounds about right.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most of the questions are not about being narcissistic or not, most of them are connected to self esteem and need of dominance.

Im sure most of afcs would have a perfect score to use to seek approval.
 

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11.

There is actually a new test---which is supposedly validated---that has one question: Do you consider yourself a narcissist?

Apparently narcissists acknowledge their narcissism and think that there is nothing wrong with it---a hallmark feature of a personality disorder.
 

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Mine was 30

Authority: 7.00
Self-Sufficiency: 6.00
Superiority: 5.00
Exhibitionism: 2.00
Exploitativeness: 2.00
Vanity: 3.00
Entitlement: 5.00

Not bad
 

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12.

Authority: 5.00
Self-Sufficiency: 2.00
Superiority: 2.00
Exhibitionism: 1.00
Exploitativeness: 0.00
Vanity: 1.00
Entitlement: 1.00
 

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Colossus said:
11.

There is actually a new test---which is supposedly validated---that has one question: Do you consider yourself a narcissist?

Apparently narcissists acknowledge their narcissism and think that there is nothing wrong with it---a hallmark feature of a personality disorder.

that explains a lot. cough* cough* my username.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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